Written by: Ginger Carlson, Executive Contributor
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In this article, we delve into the concept of aligning your inner self (soul) with your external life (role) through the metaphor of the Möbius strip. The journey involves self-awareness, action, and the pursuit of authenticity. By exploring the idea that our inner and outer worlds should harmonize, we discover the art and science of thriving undivided, ultimately leading to a more fulfilling and meaningful life.
Aligning your soul and your role is a pursuit that lies at the heart of living a fulfilled and harmonious life. This alignment involves recognizing how the different facets of your daily existence, such as parenthood, vocation, creative expression, and leadership, resonate with your deepest self. It's about weaving these elements together into a harmonious tapestry.
Understanding the foundation
Today, we embark on a fascinating journey along the Möbius strip, a symbolic exploration of aligning your soul and your role in life. This concept holds the power to transform the way you navigate your path and bring about profound personal growth. So, fasten your seatbelts, and let's dive into the art and science of thriving undivided.
As we delve into this journey, remember that thriving undivided is both an art and a science. It requires mindfulness of both your internal and external environments. Your inner world comprises your thoughts, emotions, and the intricate workings of your being. On the other hand, your outer world consists of your actions and the people and circumstances that surround you. Finding alignment necessitates conscious attention to both dimensions. Enter the powerful metaphor of the Möbius strip.
The Möbius strip as a metaphor
To grasp the significance of aligning your soul and role, we turn to the Möbius strip. This mathematical curiosity is a surface with only one side and one boundary, much like the idea that your inner life is a reflection of your outer life and vice versa. As you trace your finger along the Möbius strip's surface, it becomes impossible to distinguish the inside from the outside, just as it can be challenging to separate your inner and outer selves.
This symbolic journey on the Möbius strip teaches us that to be our authentic and thriving selves, the facets of our lives must align and become congruent. While this doesn't mean revealing every aspect of yourself to everyone, it does require reducing conflict between your external actions and your internal values.
Consider a scenario where your work conflicts significantly with your inner values, causing distress and soul damage. Aligning your soul and role is a process of self-discovery and self-actualization. It involves connecting your deepest desires with your external ambitions, crafting a meaningful and fulfilling life.
The journey begins with awareness
The first step on this transformative journey is awareness. To align your soul and role, start by identifying your core values. These values define who you are and what you stand for, even if they occasionally seem to conflict with each other. This introspective process allows you to gain a deeper understanding of your thoughts, emotions, and actions, shedding light on how they impact your life.
Taking action to align
With awareness as your foundation, the next step is to take action. This involves making changes to your lifestyle, such as adopting healthier habits or exploring new interests. It may also necessitate more significant adjustments in your relationships, like setting boundaries and engaging in meaningful conversations. Through action, you bridge the gap between your inner and outer selves, fostering alignment and authenticity.
Embrace symbolic reminders
As you embark on this journey, consider incorporating symbolic reminders into your life, much like the pendant I wear (a Möbius strip), representing my commitment to living congruently. These symbols serve as touchstones, guiding you to maintain alignment with your authentic self.
In the pursuit of aligning your soul and your role, remember that every moment of your life has prepared you for the next step. Embrace your unique journey along the Möbius strip, and take that next step with confidence, for you are perfectly prepared to thrive undivided. Stay aligned, and may your life be a masterpiece of authenticity and harmony.
In closing, I leave you with a poem to ponder:
The soul always knows when the mind has taken on work not meant for it The dance will continue to generate stories The way a river dissolves into the sea Better to explore What misguided things we worship To what we are miscommitted What nectar we might be immaturely sipping What if we don’t need sunlight to see Shadows are guides too An inch is always an inch But real life is not so dependable
eyelids do not have to be as heavy as the power we have given them After adequate rest It is their nature to flutter open & wake the alchemy of humanness
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Ginger Carlson, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Dr. Ginger Carlson is an international keynote and TEDx speaker, leader, and award-winning author. She has presented and written widely on the topics of creativity, communication, growth, and transformation, and how to uniquely and positively nurture each of them in our personal lives and organizations. Dr. Carlson is the co-founder of Möbius Dynamics and CEO of The Multarity Project™. She can be contacted through her websites https://www.gingercarlson.com/ and https://www.multarityproject.com/
