Lorii Abela is a board-certified master NLP practitioner, success coach, soulmate expert, and professional matchmaker. She specializes in assisting successful executives who feel lonely, frustrated, and burnt out from online dating.
In the fast-paced world of CEOs and executives, professional achievement and accolades often overshadow personal life, making it difficult to find love.
Metropolitan living and the demands of maintaining a successful career can be immensely challenging for busy singles, whether bachelor or divorced. While many executives excel in their field, they need help building meaningful relationships. We have seen net-worth individuals go through a series of divorces. Understanding the common dating pitfalls you face will help you strategize and promote genuine connections, which is essential.
Let's take a closer look.
Prioritizing work at the expense of personal life
Busy executives usually fall into the trap of letting career success take over their lives to build their empires, neglecting personal relationships. However, you must spare time to develop and nurture relationships intentionally. Consider your love life a significant project requiring time, attention, and clear goals, much like your professional life.
Solution
Aim to set specific personal time goals and incorporate them into your schedule.
Be steadfast about it if you are serious about finding love.
Treat your personal life with the same intensity and dedication as your professional pursuit.
Valuing perfection over compatibility
Elite singles often can be too picky, as they have high expectations and strict standards for themselves and their partners. They want to be proud of their mates, too. Consequently, this can lead them to miss compatible mates who don't fit an idealized image and further cause them to ignore meaningful relationships.
Solution
Focus on finding someone compatible who shares your values and aspirations rather than seeking perfection. Compatibility has a higher chance of relationship success as it brings different strengths together to create a stronger, more solid relationship.
Believing the myth of being 'ready'
High achievers are naturally competitive and may think they must reach a certain level in life, career, or personal development before starting a relationship, which can delay finding happiness. Accepting and being open about your flaws is vital to forming deep and meaningful relationships with others.
Solution
Love yourself for who or where you are right now, and don't constantly look for the next best thing or perfection, not focusing on who is in front of you. You might end up missing gold. Being honest about your weaknesses can make you more relatable and help build stronger connections based on cooperation and understanding.
Being distracted and not emotionally available
Genuine connection doesn't happen when executives are mentally or emotionally not ready. Emotional availability involves active listening, empathy, and conversations with potential partners.
Solution
When getting to know a date, prioritize emotional openness. Be naturally curious, ask open-ended questions, and show genuine interest in building trust and intimacy. You'll never know if there are possibilities if you don't give it a chance. Also, practice etiquette by keeping your phone in your pocket.
Underestimating the benefits of professional help
Busy executives may decline to ask for help with their love lives because they desire to do everything themselves or because of privacy concerns. Some may need clarification about the benefits of personalized, confidential matchmaking services tailored for elite singles, focusing on compatibility, values, and lifestyle preferences.
Solution
Consider using professional matchmaking services experts such as Lorii Abela provide. These services offer confidential, customized, and vetted matchmaking based on your unique criteria, connecting you with like-minded individuals who share your values and lifestyle.
By addressing these common mistakes, you, as a busy executive, can successfully navigate the dating arena and build lasting, fulfilling relationships that complement your life alongside your professional achievements. For relationships tailored to your lifestyle and preferences, connect with matchmaker Lorii Abela.
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Lorii Abela, Soulmate Expert and Professional Matchmaker
Lorii Abela is a board-certified master NLP practitioner, success coach, soulmate expert, and professional matchmaker. She specializes in assisting successful executives who feel lonely, frustrated, and burnt out from online dating. Lorii's approach not only saves them time but also brings happiness by guiding them into the right mindset, resulting in meeting quality, relationship-oriented matches 93% of the time. As a five-time international bestselling author, her debut book, "Sexy Secrets to a Juicy Love Life," has garnered acclaim. Lorii is a dynamic TV host and producer of "Matchmaker Secrets," "Ready, Jetset, Go!," and "Scale Up." These shows air on CAN TV Chicago, Roku, and Firestick.
