Written by: Dr. Eric Nutting, Executive Contributor
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Last month, we explored the importance of human energy, the need for unconditional self-love and the intricate web of connections that weaves through each individual life. Giving this concept of unconditional love and its transformative ripple effect further thought, we are going to extend this process to nurturing meaningful partnerships – both intimate and professional. This means we need to be mindful of the flow of energy, the art of setting boundaries, effective communication and learning how to appreciate others so we may elevate not just our own life but others as well.
1. The energy of partnerships
For a relationship to thrive, I like to think of a conduit for energy that continuously flows back and forth between two entities. That combined energy is then used to power…something. Though I must admit, I am a horrific dancer, there remains a romantic vision in my mind of a graceful tango, masterfully executed between two people, that requires perfect harmony and balance. This energy exchanged between two individuals has the absolute possibility to be transformative, shaping the path toward collective growth and performance. Sometimes we lead, sometimes we follow, sometimes we listen, sometimes we speak, and when the music is right, and when we truly hear and we honestly communicate with empathy and understanding, then…we magically, metaphorically dance.
2. The importance of boundaries
You thrive, and therefore, partnerships thrive on clearly set boundaries. When we are people pleasers, or givers, it is often difficult to do. Particularly when your self-value is wrapped into your need or want to be of service. To be able to set healthy boundaries, it is necessary to understand yourself. Once again, I bring up this process of unconditional love and through this, acceptance of self and then others. This process is what allows us to set healthy boundaries. It allows us to say for ourselves and then articulate to another that “this” is acceptable and “that” is not. These are protective barriers that allow two individuals to express themselves authentically while respecting each other’s space. These invisible lines form the foundation of a harmonious partnership.
3. Harmonizing while communicating
Have you ever been in a long relationship, and there are times when you simply can’t make sense of what the other person is saying. It’s the same language, but the message is not clear. On the other hand, I bet you have been in relationships where you simply know or understand the other person to the point of not needing to speak the words. Thriving partnerships speak a language of their own if they are rooted in effective communication. Much like a well-practiced duet, partners must listen, express, and synchronize their thoughts as well as their emotions. Think on how we can apply this to all our relationships, both in and out of the workplace.
4. Embracing diversity: Speaking different dialects
As we connect, partnerships often (and hopefully) come from diverse backgrounds and experiences. Even when we speak the same language, there are often various dialects that need to be heard. Perhaps these are the times we say, “I hear you, but I don’t understand you”. Understanding and adapting to these distinct ways that others express themselves allows us to foster mutual understanding and ideally empathy. Why do we want to strive for empathy? I believe that empathy is the tool that allows us to hear those dialects within the language. If we can gain that different perspective that the other is trying to communicate, we just might be able to discover a limiting belief within ourselves and then thrive together.
5. The pillars of trust, respect, and openness
Trust, respect, and openness form the sturdy pillars for all thriving and effective partnerships. That solid foundation allows us and our partner to feel safe, thus allowing us to navigate challenges together. Only then can we celebrate successes and create an environment of growth and shared aspirations.
The ongoing symphony of synergy
Just as human energy flows within us and intertwines us all, partnerships are essential, intricate symphonies of connection. When we apply the lessons of self-love, understanding and acceptance in these collaborations, we unlock a world of boundless opportunity and potential. That magical dance of energy between two people, both in intimate and business relationships, when nurtured effectively, creates a path to fulfillment and shared success. As we continue this journey, remember that every partnership is a unique expression of energy, a testament to the power of connection and a testament to our ability to co-create meaningful lives together. In other words, there is no need to “go it alone”.
Dr. Eric Nutting, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Eric Nutting is a Certified Holistic Life Coach, Business Coach and Behavioral Consultant. He is the President and Co-owner of The Growth Coach of St. Petersburg with his wife Dianne. Together, they are the proud parents of five grown children. With a background in metaphysics, Eric believes in the process of creating positive energy within our being so we can share that same positive energy with the world at large. Using the Strategic Business Mindset, created by Dan Murphy as well as The Life Leadership Paragon created by Dr. Douglas Kelley, Eric combines these two processes, helping you define your best self and create your best life.
