Written by: Kim Wilkinson, Executive Contributor
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The “Signs” and “Messages” are Loud and Clear When You are “Aligned AF”!
I have been thinking of writing this article for quite some time now but I have been resistant, until today. Sharing this takes me to a place of discomfort. Fear, likely of judgement, has held me back, however, my clients can confirm that I am always saying “you need to learn to get comfortable with the uncomfortable”. I guess it is time to take my own advice.
First, let me tell you I am a Trauma/Grief Recovery Coach and Spiritual Empowerment Coach and I have worked with many clients who have had significant trauma. I teach Yoga and Meditation, I am an Energy Healing Practitioner, and apparently, I am also now a medium, a channeler connecting souls passed to loved ones here on earth.
I have been working with my intuition for many years, mostly during Reiki sessions with my clients and through meditation. After my 22-year old son Tristin died of an overdose in 2019, I dove deep into my personal healing journey and deeper into spiritual practice. The journey led me to do the work I do today, which I believe is my purpose and it continues to take me to new and incredible places.
I have recently entered into a whole new realm of relationships with the spirit world. I found a connection with my Guides and a new connection with my son. My consistent meditation practice has opened up psychic abilities and the ability to communicate and channel information from the spirit world.
My work with clients on earth revolves around healing trauma and spiritual growth and it appears now that I am getting significant help from the other side.
Over the last few months, I have had many souls who have passed come to me to pass on messages to the family and/or friends still on earth. These souls clearly show me who they were on earth and what they went through. Many of them led a life of suffering while they were here on earth. I believe my son is bringing them to me. I have also had a few messages come through for people I know.
I have interacted with a soul named Jeremy who was a heroin addict, he had a connection to Vancouver, an injury or dislocation to his left shoulder (at some point), he was left-handed, he died of overdose and told me his wife or partner worries he is “stuck” and hasn’t crossed over. He wants her to know he is not stuck, he has crossed over and he is fine. The trouble is I do not know who his wife is or where to find her. He also mentioned a song, Heartland, by George Straight. I am not sure what the relevance is there, but I wrote it down with the rest of the details.
Another young girl who went by the name of Anna also came to me. She showed me she struggled with depression and extreme anxiety. She used to cut, mostly on her left forearm. She died by suicide. She wore a double heart pendant around her neck. She had dark shoulder-length hair. I have yet to determine who she wants to connect with and what the message is.
Not all that comes to me suffered while on earth. An elderly woman came to me, who passed in this last year, she showed me how she loved Christmas. She would decorate gifts with perfection, bows, ribbons all curled, she would decorate cookies that she baked and just loved everything account Christmas. She sees her adult daughter is struggling with this first Christmas without her mom. She wants her daughter to get into the Christmas spirit, so she will be able to connect more with her mom, spiritually. Again, I don’t know who this daughter is or where she lives but the detail is very clear.
Then there is Jerry who came to me to pass on a message for my brother. This was interesting. There are 9 years between my brother and I so we were not really close growing up. I didn’t really know any of his friends and by the time he went into Elementary school, I was moved out and starting life as an adult.
This Jerry had died a long time ago, as a teenager, and he wanted my brother to know that my brother was a good friend. He told me my brother carried a lot of weight (grief) about Jerry’s death and Jerry wanted him to let that go. In my mediumship training I am learning to ask for evidence, so, I asked Jerry to tell me what animal he would show my brother or that my brother has seen. Fox. That is what immediately came up. I sat on this for a day then decided to message my brother.
I said in a message to my brother “This might sound weird but have you seen a fox or can you let me know if you see a fox?”
It didn’t take long for my brother to reply “I see fox all the time when I am at work”. So I asked my next uncomfortable question “Did you have a friend named Jerry who died”. My brother replied “Yup”.
So I proceeded to tell my brother all that Jerry had told me. My brother then told me what happened. When they were teenagers, Jerry had gone to a party, passed out and sadly died of asphyxiation as a result of vomiting in his sleep. My brother and Jerry had a fight the day before and my brother never went to the party.
For over 20 years my brother has carried guilt about that fight and not being there that night. He thought Jerry might not have died if he was there. I think my brother felt relief after I gave him Jerry’s message. He thanked me and apparently, he got chills when I told him everything. I found out later he immediately called our mom to see if she had told me about this. The answer was no. I later felt so grateful to be able to bring some peace and comfort to my brother. I had no idea he had carried that for so long.
There are many others that have come to me and in connecting with my guides, the message I received was to start sharing these messages publicly, and the people that need to hear these messages will come. I felt like Kevin Costner in Field of Dreams – Build it and they will come. I immediately thought F that. I am not doing that. People will think I am crazy.
Deep down, I knew, this had to be done. It is part of this journey I have been on the last several years and I know there is significance in it. I started to think perhaps part of my purpose was to bring relief and healing to others, just like my brother.
So, I started taking the steps to become comfortable with the uncomfortable. I started a fb group where I am doing weekly live channeling on zoom and sharing whatever messages come up.
Today, Dec 20, during my morning meditation, I went into my regular practice of gratitude, intention setting and connected with spirit, and I asked my son to give me a clear sign today.
Not 5 minutes after my meditation, I checked my email and noticed the email from Brainz Magazine announcing the release of the Brainz 500 Global Awards 2021. I am recognized on this list, so I clicked the link to open it up and started scrolling to see the list of recipients.
Upon passing the photos of the Highlights from the list and moving to the alphabetical list, what I saw was a long list of every line saying “I’m Fluffy” above the icon for the website and award. All the way down to the bottom of the page, every name listed said “I’m Fluffy”.
Fluffy was my son’s nickname. In fact, the other day I pulled out his Christmas stocking that he made that says Fluffy on it. Seeing this long list of “I’m Fluffy” gave me quite a laugh! Tristin loved to make people laugh.
That was my big loud sign, to write this article and share this story.
Quickly the website changed to reflect the real list of names in alphabetical order, but not before I was able to snap a screenshot showing the list saying “I’m Fluffy” for every single name.
So thank you Tristin and Brainz Global for today’s big sign (and for the laugh)! I hear you loud and clear and I am finally stepping 100% into my discomfort to share all of this.
I have many more stories like this and while some may see much of this as coincidental, there have been too many unexplainable, magical experiences the past few years that take this beyond coincidence.
I will be sharing all of it in my third book that I hope to release later in 2022. My first book, Overdose: A Mother’s Journey from Suffering to Empowerment will be out in early 2022. The third book, yet to be titled, will be about the current/ongoing journey from empowerment to enlightenment.
If you are reading this, I may have a message for you. If interested, you can join my LIVE zoom calls and/or Facebook group where I will be doing free live weekly channeling.
If interested in deepening your spiritual practice and learning to connect with spirit world, for a limited time you can save 50% off my Spiritual Awakening (online) Master Class that is starting in Feb.
In the new year, I will be offering one on one sessions to connect with your guides and/or loved ones past. Contact me directly for more information or to set up an appointment.
We are all very much supported and guided by the spirit world. We just need to slow down, get grounded, breathe and notice the signs around us. Life is incredible when you connect back to the source.
For more information on the Grief Recovery Program, visit my website or follow me on Facebook, Instagram, YouTube, LinkedIn, and Twitter.
Kim Wilkinson, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine Kim Wilkinson is the Founder, Coach, and Facilitator of Empowered Life. She specializes in Trauma and Grief Recovery and has a passion for helping people move from suffering to empowerment. Kim found her passion and purpose through her own journey of healing trauma and loss. The experience of losing her 22-year-old son to an overdose in 2019 after years of Mental Health and Addiction concerns was her greatest struggle and greatest gift. She has become an expert in emotional health and healing and continues to study Trauma under one of the world’s most leading Trauma experts, Dr. Gabor Mate. Kim has been a Facilitator/Teacher for over 25 years. She is a certified Yoga/Meditation teacher, Reiki Master, Belief Clearing Practitioner, Advanced Grief Recovery Specialist, and Life Coach who works with clients across Canada and the U.S. In addition to one-on-one coaching, she facilitates a variety of healing and personal growth programs, both in-person and online. Kim recently launched her own 4-week online program, entitled Empowered Transformation – The Road Map to Living an Empowered Life. In the fall of 2021, Kim will be training a team of Facilitators to teach this new online program. Her own incredible journey of healing and transformation along with her trainings and certifications have helped many of her clients find freedom and peace from their past traumas and struggles. Along with support for healing, Kim also has a strong passion for educating parents, to reduce the risk of mental health and addiction concerns for their children. You can find a full list of programs and services on the Empowered Life Website.
