Esther Janssen is a certified Tantra massage therapist specialising in healing women's trauma. Her own experiences of emotional abuse during childhood, as well as sexual assaults and rape as an adult, led her to her calling as a healer through the process of overcoming her own traumas.
In our fast-paced world, where stress and trauma can accumulate in our bodies and spirits, the healing power of mindful touch offers a gentle beacon of hope. Tantra massage, focusing on presence, intention and holistic well-being, provides a unique path to healing that goes beyond the physical. It’s a loving journey that can lead to profound emotional release, energy healing and a renewed sense of wholeness.
Understanding trauma and energy blockages
Trauma, whether a single event or accumulated over time, can create deep-seated energy blockages in our bodies. These blockages might manifest as:
Persistent tension or discomfort in your body
Feelings of emotional numbness or overwhelming emotions
Challenges with intimacy or trust
Lingering anxiety or sadness
A sense of disconnection from yourself or others
These energy blockages can feel like barriers, impeding the natural flow of your life force and leaving you feeling stuck, drained or out of balance. But please know that these feelings aren’t permanent, and healing is possible.
The holistic approach of tantra massage
Tantra massage offers a holistic approach to healing that addresses the body, mind and spirit. This ancient practice supports trauma recovery and overall well-being through mindful touch, energy healing, emotional release, body awareness and spiritual connection.
Mindful touch
Unlike routine massages, every touch in tantra massage is infused with presence and intention. This mindful approach helps to bring you into the present moment, gently guiding you out of the past, where your trauma often resides.
Energy healing
Tantra massage works with the body’s energy systems, helping to identify and release blockages. This can lead to a sense of “lightness”, improved energy flow and greater vitality.
Emotional release
As energy blockages are released, emotions that have been stored in the body can surface. Tantra massage provides a safe space for this emotional release, supporting us while we process these feelings.
Body awareness
Through gentle, attentive touch, tantra massage helps you rebuild a positive relationship with your body. This is particularly powerful for those who have experienced physical trauma.
Spiritual connection
For many, tantra massage opens the door to a deeper spiritual connection, whether with oneself, others or a higher power.
The journey of healing through tantra massage
Healing through tantra massage is a gentle journey of unfolding, of peeling back layers to reveal your true, whole self. It’s not just about the physical touch; it’s a loving journey of the body, mind and soul.
When you embark on this journey, whether with a trained practitioner or a trusted partner at home, something magical happens. Your energies unite on a heart level, creating a bridge between souls. There’s an exchange of power and love that reminds us we are all connected, that our hearts beat to the same rhythm…
This sacred moment of giving and receiving, of sharing and connecting, allows for deep healing and renewal. It’s a clarifying, often reconciling way to build a new, beautiful connection to your body and self, igniting self-love.
The touch in tantra massage is not about overpowering the body. The intention is to support and soothe your body gently. That’s why each session is unique, guided by intuition and the connection established between giver and receiver. The approach often involves light touches or holding certain parts of the body to signal safety and reassurance.
Some people are surprised during the massage as deeply hidden feelings and emotions surface. These are often deep-seated, repressed pains that call out for recognition and healing. If you experience this, know that it’s a normal part of the healing process. You’re in a safe space where all your emotions are welcome.
Stories of transformation
Many have found profound healing through this practice:
“After years of feeling numb, tantra massage helped me feel alive again. It was like waking up to my own body.” – Clara, 41
“I never realised how much tension I was holding until I experienced the release of tantra massage. It’s been transformative for my emotional and physical well-being.” – Peter, 38
Your invitation to healing
If you feel called to explore the transformative power of tantra massage, know that you’re taking a courageous step towards healing and wholeness. As a practitioner who has witnessed countless individuals journey from trauma to empowerment, I’m honoured to offer a safe, nurturing space for your healing.
Are you ready to begin your tantra healing journey? I invite you to visit my website to learn more about the services I offer. There, you can also sign up for a free consultation to discuss how tantra massage might support your unique path to healing. Or, if you still need some time, motivation and a little love and guidance before speaking about your healing journey face-to-face, you can download my free Meditation Guide here. I’ll also keep you updated on the release of my new book and any launch news and updates. At the moment, experts in various fields, such as psychotherapy, trauma therapy, and spirituality, are still reviewing it. I am, however, still looking for a publisher who can help me release it both nationally and internationally.
Remember, your body holds innate wisdom and the capacity for profound healing. Through the power of mindful touch and tantra massage, you can tap into this wisdom, release what no longer serves you, and step into a life of greater balance, joy and wholeness.
Disclaimer: This article is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. The information provided herein is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment. Always seek the advice of your physician or other qualified health provider with any questions you may have before undertaking any treatments.
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Esther Janssen, Certified Tantric Trauma Healer for Women
Her own experiences of emotional abuse during childhood, as well as sexual assaults and rape as an adult, led her to her calling as a healer through the process of overcoming her own traumas. She has empowered hundreds of women from many countries on their journeys to self-love and healing. Her mission is to guide people through the process of healing women’s collective wounds.