Dr. Victoria Rader is best known when it comes to a life of joy and freedom. She is the founder of YU2SHINE, a pioneer of Quantum Personal Development TM, the best-selling author, app developer, innovator, Broadway producer, and Zero Limits movie star.
In a world fascinated by the Law of Attraction, we celebrate the idea that we attract what we desire: love, success, opportunities, and abundance. But attraction is only half of the equation. What most don’t realize is that the Law of Magnetism, a universal principle rooted in quantum mechanics, teaches us that just as we attract, we also repel. Every magnetic force has two poles, and in the same way, every person who is drawn to us will be met with another who is repelled.
The true test of growth is not just in embracing what we attract but in celebrating what rejects us. Without this balance, rejection settles in as resentment, and if left unchecked, resentment morphs into regret or revenge. The energy we hold onto when we feel dismissed or unaccepted can define us, either weighing us down or propelling us forward.
Understanding the law of magnetism: Beyond attraction
In quantum mechanics, the principle of resonance explains that particles vibrating at similar frequencies attract and synchronize. This is the foundation of the Law of Attraction, like attracts like. But just as resonance draws together similar energies, it also repels those that vibrate at different frequencies.
Spiritually and practically, this means that as we align more with our authentic purpose, we naturally push away people, opportunities, and experiences that no longer match our evolving frequency. Rejection, then, is not a sign of failure; it is evidence of growth.
Yet, when rejection is misunderstood, it leaves behind an emotional residue of resentment. If we hold onto it, resentment eventually becomes regret (internalized rejection) or revenge (externalized rejection). Throughout history, we have seen both outcomes play out with significant consequences.
Rejection, regret, and revenge: Lessons from history
Regret, The Path of Unfulfilled Potential: Vincent van Gogh is a prime example of an unrecognized genius in his time. Rejected by the art world, he suffered deeply, internalizing that rejection as self-doubt and despair, leading to his tragic end. His regret, stemming from the world’s inability to accept his vision, became his burden.
Revenge, The Destructive Force of Rejection: Napoleon Bonaparte, initially dismissed and mocked for his small stature and unremarkable origins, used his rejection as fuel. His hunger for dominance was, at its core, a response to early dismissal. His empire grew as an assertion of power, but ultimately, his inability to reconcile rejection led to his downfall.
In both cases, rejection was pivotal. One internalized it as regret; the other externalized it as revenge. But what if rejection could instead be transformed into joy?
From rejection to resonance: My personal journey
I have faced rejection at every turn. Every time I had a choice, I would either let it become resentment or use it as fuel to realign with my purpose.
Rejected knowledge, reprogrammed reality: Growing up in the former USSR, I had a teacher who told me I was wasting my time trying to learn English. She insisted I should quit and focus on something “practical” like German. That moment could have planted a seed of doubt, but instead, it fueled a quiet determination within me. Today, not only do I live in an English-speaking world, but I also reprogram subconscious beliefs for thousands globally in English.
Resting while the world hustled: In real estate, I refused to work on Sundays, a choice that many saw as detrimental. Instead of forcing myself into alignment with an overworked industry, I honored my values and became part of the 1% of realtors in the U.S. and Canada.
Pioneering what was once dismissed: When I first introduced the idea of practical spirituality, it was dismissed as unrealistic. Today, YU2SHINE is pioneering Quantum Personal Development™, transforming thousands of lives worldwide. The very rejection that could have disheartened us instead became the foundation of this global work.
Rejection does not mean you are unworthy; it means you are refining your frequency. Those who leave, those who criticize, and those who misunderstand you are part of the necessary realignment.
The path forward: Turning rejection into joy
So, how do you process rejection in a way that liberates rather than limits you? The key is reprogramming your response at a quantum level.
Reprogram your brain to quantum leap into a new reality: Begin rewiring your subconscious patterns to see rejection as redirection. Click here to start shifting your energy toward alignment.
Heal grief from rejection without suppression: Rejection hurts. But suppressing that pain leads to emotional blocks. The Empower-mE App (My Grief subset) helps you move from loss to joy in a conscious, empowered way. Explore it here.
Discover your path to freedom: If rejection is redirection, then where is it leading you? Find your personal journey to fulfillment here.
Final thought: A celebration of rejection
If you are being rejected, congratulations! It means you are evolving. It means you are aligning. It means you are rising to a frequency that is incompatible with the past version of you.
Celebrate rejection as much as you celebrate attraction. Both are signs that you are exactly where you need to be. The key is not to resist, resent, or regret but to rise.
Because when you fully step into your own frequency, the right people, opportunities, and miracles will be magnetized to you. And everything that falls away? It was never meant for the you that you are becoming.
It’s your turn to quantum leap to joy and freedom, surrender to love.
Victoria Rader, Quantum Expert TM and Founder of YU2SHINE
Victoria Rader, Ph.D., is the Possibility Coach®, founder of YU2SHINE, and a Regional Director for Global Woman Club Metro DC. Victoria is a globally recognized transformational speaker, featured in Forbes and seen on CNN, Fox, ABC, and NBC. A pioneer of Quantum Personal Development, Victoria created innovative tools like MyGiftOffer.com, mE Journals, Empower-mE, and Master-mE apps. A multiple-time best-selling award-winning author and Broadway Producer, she is also featured in the upcoming Zero Limits movie. Her work frees individuals toward fulfillment and prosperity. Her teachings have even reached the moon through the Lunar Legacy Project. Victoria’s mission is to help others to quantum leap their life by remembering and shining their light through Love Life, Originating Vibrant Emotion. An avid reader, traveler, tennis player, and dog lover, Victoria’s greatest joy in life is her family. Above all, Victoria is clear that all that has been accomplished by her, has simply been accomplished through her via God’s infinite divine grace.
