Jasmine is an exceptional Trauma-informed Emotional Eating Holistic Health and Wellness Coach who gracefully manages her roles as a dedicated mother, wife, and leader in various church ministries. Her journey is marked by notable accomplishments, such as co-authoring two Amazon number 1 Best-Selling books and attaining the esteemed title of a number 1 International best-seller.
As a Christian woman entrepreneur, you carry a profound calling to create, lead, and impact the world in a way that glorifies God. Yet, along this journey, emotional eating or overeating may quietly creep in, becoming an unwelcome coping mechanism for stress, disappointment, or overwhelm. For many women, this struggle is deeply private, tucked away behind smiles and success. But staying silent, trapped in guilt and shame, can cost you far more than you realize.
I know this because it was my story too. I spent years keeping my struggles with emotional eating hidden, believing I could handle it on my own. But the cost was high. I gained weight, battled acne, and felt a persistent lack of confidence that seeped into every area of my life.
I was drained physically, emotionally, and spiritually, and it held me back from fully embracing the life God had planned for me.
Silence keeps you stuck. It holds you back from experiencing the healing and freedom God desires for you. In this article, we’ll explore why staying silent is not the answer, the real cost of keeping struggles hidden, and how speaking up can be the first step to reclaiming your health, energy, and purpose.
Why silence feels safer
Many women hesitate to open up about their struggles with emotional eating for a variety of reasons.
Guilt and shame: You might feel as though you should “have it all together.” As a Christian, you may believe that your faith should give you the strength to handle it on your own. This guilt often creates a cycle of shame, convincing you it’s better to hide your struggles than risk judgment.
Fear of judgment: The fear of being misunderstood or judged by peers, loved ones, or even your faith community can make it difficult to share. You might worry that admitting this struggle could diminish the respect or credibility you’ve worked so hard to build.
The Myth of self-sufficiency: As an entrepreneur, you’re used to solving problems and finding solutions. Admitting you need help with something as personal as your relationship with food might feel like a weakness, contradicting the image of strength you project.
While these reasons feel valid, they ultimately keep you isolated and disconnected, not just from others, but also from yourself and God’s transformative grace.
The real cost of staying silent
Silence may feel like self-protection, but it comes with a hidden price.
Emotional and spiritual disconnect: Bottling up your struggles creates a barrier between you and God. In silence, you miss the opportunity to bring your pain to Him and experience His healing power. Psalm 34:17 reminds us, “The righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them; He delivers them from all their troubles.” Silence denies you this divine comfort.
Unfulfilled potential: When emotional eating consumes your energy and focus, it can prevent you from stepping fully into your God-given calling. You may feel drained, stuck, or unable to give your best to your work, family, or ministry.
Physical and mental health decline: Emotional eating often leads to cycles of overeating, guilt, and neglect of self-care, which can take a toll on your physical health and mental well-being over time.
The cost of silence is high, but the good news is that it doesn’t have to define your journey.
Speaking up: The first step toward freedom
Opening up about your struggles isn’t easy, but it’s the pathway to healing and transformation. Here’s why speaking up matters:
Healing through community: When you share your struggles with trusted individuals, you invite others to walk alongside you in prayer, accountability, and encouragement. Galatians 6:2 urges us to “carry each other’s burdens, and in this way, you will fulfill the law of Christ.” You don’t have to carry this alone.
Freedom from shame: The act of naming your struggle robs it of its power. By speaking out, you dismantle the hold shame has over you. Shame thrives in silence, but when brought to light, it loses its grip.
Clarity and direction: When you acknowledge your struggle, you create space for clarity and solutions. Whether through counseling, faith-based coaching, or programs like my Reclaim YOU Method, speaking up opens the door to the help and tools you need to move forward.
How to begin the journey
If the idea of opening up feels daunting, start small:
Take it to God: Begin with prayer, sharing your feelings honestly with Him. Ask for courage and wisdom to seek help. He promises to guide you.
Find a safe space: Identify one trusted person—a mentor, coach, or close friend—who can offer support without judgment. Sharing even a small part of your story can be freeing.
Join a supportive program: Consider faith-based programs like the Reclaim YOU Method, which provide a structured and compassionate environment for healing. In this program, we’ll work together to uncover the roots of your struggles, rewrite your food story, and help you find lasting freedom.
Leaning on god for strength
The journey to healing is not meant to be walked alone. Lean on God as your source of strength and grace. Isaiah 41:10 reminds us, “So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.”
By opening up, you invite God’s healing into your life and take the first step toward freedom – not just from emotional eating, but from the weight of guilt and shame that has held you back.
Your healing begins with one step
Your silence has cost you enough. It’s time to break free, name your struggles, and embrace the healing and transformation that God longs for you to experience. By speaking up and seeking help, you open the door to a healthier, more vibrant version of yourself – one that can fully embrace her calling with energy, confidence, and joy.
Are you ready to take that first step? Let’s work together to rewrite your story, uncover the roots of your struggle, and reclaim the life God has planned for you. Contact me today, and let’s begin your journey toward healing and freedom.
Jasmine Kelly-Stephens, IIN Holistic Health and Wellness Coach
Jasmine is an exceptional Trauma-informed Emotional Eating Holistic Health and Wellness Coach who gracefully manages her roles as a dedicated mother, wife, and leader in various church ministries. Her journey is marked by notable accomplishments, such as co-authoring two Amazon Number 1 Best-Selling books and attaining the esteemed title of a Number 1 International best-seller.
Jasmine's personal story spans several decades, interwoven with the trials of comfort, stress, and emotional eating. This deeply personal struggle propels her unwavering commitment to addressing the emotional eating crisis, and guiding women towards healing, restoration, and liberation. At the heart of her mission is the empowerment of women, helping them liberate themselves from the chains of shame and guilt linked to emotional eating, all while drawing on her expertise in trauma-informed care. Through this transformative process, women rediscover their relationship with food and their bodies, embracing a journey of self-love and acceptance that brings forth renewed energy, freedom, and confidence to fulfill their divine callings within the Kingdom.
Jasmine firmly believes that the healing experienced by women extends its positive ripples outward, fostering healthier relationships within families and communities. This ripple effect creates a transformative impact for everyone involved. While Jasmine offers personalized coaching tailored for Christian women entrepreneurs, her passion knows no bounds. Actively spreading the message of transformation through speaking engagements and workshops, she aims to reach anyone open to the journey toward healing and well-being.
