Written by: Grace Alfafara, Executive Contributor
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We all go through so many venues of pain in life and the choice of suffering comes along with it when we are not aware that suffering is a choice.
“Know your strength that you use fear as a fuel to launch your truth out loud unapologetically”. – Grace Alfafara
We all go through the venues of pleasure in life and the choice of joy and peace comes along with it even though we are aware of it or not. Life is always working out for us and from us when we choose the choice of joy and peace based on love.
On the contrary, life is always against us when we choose the choice of suffering based on fear. And each of those energies of love and fear has the energetical meaning we choose to attach to it either as an empowering or disempowering meaning.
You see, energies cannot be destroyed as they keep flowing to the most prominent intention we choose to create as reality. So, being careful of the kind of choice we make in decision-making in life, impacts our inner world and the outer world of reality.
We only suffer from our choices based on the fear we planted in our minds on repeat cycles. When we choose to suffer, our behavior reacts based on fear and our actions show to the point that it becomes truth to us. Then, those limiting beliefs become unhealthy-familiar-comfortable habits that can affect our whole health and relationships in general.
On the other hand, when we choose to turn our pain into powerful messages like turning our hurt into healing, loss into love, sadness into joy, wounds into wisdom, or grief into grace and gratitude, and trauma into transformational journeys, we then rediscover ourselves by choosing to care enough about our health mentally, spiritually, emotionally, energetically and relationally. We also then activate the part of our inner world in cultivating to self-regulate our emotions on a cellular level.
This is also part of healing forward in learning to unlearn our limiting belief system that was ingrained in our upbringing. This is when we reset what is truly possible for our current moment so that our future selves will have something to thank us for.
Speaking of how to differentiate between whether we are creating a reality based on letting go or surrendering versus manipulating energy that can affect our inner and outer world of pain and pleasure:
First, if we choose the choice of “surrendering or letting go manifestation,” this choice is based on surrendering to love and being loved. Because love is the essence of what holds everything together in harmony. It leads you back to be in alignment with the Divine Source. Because if you are cultivating the essence of love, you are activating the healing and blessing that flows energetically for you and from you as you create the manifestation reality based on your choice of life experiences. There are tools deep within us on how to activate our essence of surrendering or letting go. To know how to cultivate and tap into these powerful hidden tools in you, you can connect with me in a one-on-one consultation about this.
Second, if we choose the choice of “manipulation manifestation”, this choice is based on lack and fear. Therefore, it leads you back to be in misalignment with the Divine Source. This means we are activating our ego. And ego is an essence of separation from everything. We humans get blinded by our ego thinking everything is an outside source of manifestations just to feel the illusion of completion of our wholeness through our ego-driven belief system.
In truth, as we mentioned above, we are already whole as we learn to choose to manifest by doing all things in love. For instance, like the surrendering manifestation habits, we then are living life in alignment with the Divine Source (God). This is the choice of blessings- life becomes pleasurable and more meaningful.
But if we choose to manifest by doing all things in fear, the manipulation manifestation habits, we then are living life in misalignment with the Divine Source. This is the choice of suffering. Life becomes depressing and meaningless, or more stressful.
So, the question is, is it possible to live a life manifesting through letting go (surrendering) or through manipulation? Yes, it is possible without being aware of it. You get to choose which energies of manifestations you want to create to experience in life. After all, life is all about life experiences. But if we don’t learn how to question everything powerfully, we will manifest a manipulation energy habit that creates havoc or disempowering environment in our inner and outer reality.
Let’s learn how to start questioning powerfully everything in our thoughts before we manifest the things we are about to experience in life. To questions means, to question mindfully and by that, we practice a healthy habit to create based on love and in alignment with the Divine Source. Then, even though life can be challenging, at least we teach ourselves the essence of self-love, self-respect, and resonance. Because resonance is far better than just self-discipline. Resonance is aligning yourself with the healthiest version of yourself. It is in the understanding of knowingness of your healthiest truth of who you are as a powerful being.
When we learn to tap into these powerful tools on how to cultivate our creator to create through surrendering manifestation energies, we then activate our essence of wholeness, and not based on lack or fear. But we activate based on pure love.
Because deep within the “surrendering manifestation,” there’s peace. When there’s peace, there’s true pure love. When there’s pure love, there’s gratitude without judgment. When there’s no judgment, there’s peace.
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Grace Alfafara, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Grace Alfafara, is a mother to 4 teenagers, a Published Author, Grief Advocate, Certified Sophrologist, and a Certified Transformational Life Coach, in which she specializes in emotional and adaptability intelligence. She also develops an online empowerment Masterclass. She has lived in 5 countries and has worked as a Philanthropist for several years with her family. Her background education in Western culture on Psychology, Quantum Consciousness, and life growing up in a blend of Eastern and African cultures full of diverse life experiences have brought immense wisdom within the span of her life. A mother on a mission: empowering others to embody their true resilient essence wholeheartedly.
