Written by: Dr. Clinton Bullock, Executive Contributor
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In contemporary discourse, there is a concerning tendency to conflate all forms of masculinity with toxic masculinity. This misinterpretation arises from a lack of nuanced understanding and oversimplification of the concept. While toxic masculinity may be referred to as harmful or dysfunctional behaviors usually associated with men, it is crucial to recognize that not all forms of masculinity fall under this umbrella. In recent years, discussions surrounding masculinity have gained momentum, with various perspectives emerging. In that, it is critical to recognize that masculinity, on the whole, holds great significance in the modern Western world. The following aims to explore four reasons for which masculinity is needed now more than ever and will highlight its profound contributions to society.
1. Psychological well-being & mental health
Masculinity plays a vital role in promoting the psychological well-being among men. Despite increased awareness about mental health, men still face challenges when it comes to seeking assistance and expressing their thoughts and emotions. Embracing masculinity helps create spaces where men can connect and seek adequate support. Encouraging men to engage in open discussions can alleviate mental health issues, such as depression and anxiety, which tend to affect many men silently.
2. Positive role models
The Western world needs strong male role models who exemplify positive qualities associated with masculinity. These role models inspire men (especially young men) to embrace responsibility, resiliency, discipline, and determination, which give way to personal and professional growth. Men who demonstrate the latter traits garner respect, assist in combating negative stereotypes, and guide the younger generation of men towards healthy relationships and overall success.
3. Family dynamics & fatherhood
Masculinity plays a significant role in family dynamics, particularly in fatherhood. Engaged and involved fathers contribute to the well-being and the development of children. Studies consistently highlight the positive impact of the paternal influence on children's emotional and cognitive development, as well as their overall happiness. According to research, 90% of welfare recipients are single mothers; and 70% of gang members, teen suicides, teen pregnancies, and teen substance abusers come from single-mother homes. In fact, another study illustrated that children in father-absent homes account for 71% of all high school dropouts, 90% of homeless and runaway children, and 63% of youth suicides.
Promoting fatherhood and emphasizing the importance of active participation in raising children lead to stronger family units and a more balanced upbringing. By recognizing and encouraging the extremely unique contributions of fathers, appreciation for masculinity will increase in society on the whole.
4. Workplace diversity & collaboration
Masculinity contributes to workplace diversity and collaboration efforts by embracing a range of leadership styles and perspectives. By acknowledging the inherent strengths of masculine qualities, organizations can foster a more inclusive work environment. Masculine traits, such as assertiveness, competitiveness, and risk-taking can be channeled to drive innovation and productivity. Combining said traits with collaboration and emotional intelligence leads to a more effective and sounder organizational team. Embracing masculinity encourages balance, enables individuals to flourish professionally, and contributes to a more diverse and equitable workplace.
Ultimately, in the modern Western world, “masculinity,” in all of its forms, has become a negative or controversial word. Yet, it remains relevant and necessary to a well-functioning society. It plays a pivotal role in promoting psychological well-being, providing positive role models, shaping family dynamics, and fostering workplace diversity. By recognizing, embracing, and valuing masculinity, we can continue to build a strong society and strengthen the next generation to come.
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Dr. Clinton Bullock, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Dr. Clinton Bullock is the author of the best-selling book, “The 18 Rules of Engagement to Interpersonal Communication.” He is also the founder of Clinton Bullock Worldwide—a high-performance coaching practice that specializes in assisting professionals, entrepreneurs, and aspiring high achievers in overcoming self-sabotaging and other dysfunctional behaviors, so that they may function at extraordinary levels by living efficiently and creating a life that is professionally successful and personally fulfilled.
