Paulina is a World Class Leadership Coach for CEOs who excels at igniting iconic presence and personal power in top-tier leaders. She is also an International Speaker and Bestselling Author. For over 15 years, she held senior roles in Global Corporations serving Fortune 100 companies.
Fear is an unavoidable part of life, but most people don’t realize that it's not something to avoid—it’s something to master. Think of fear as a game. The better you understand its rules and learn how to play it, the faster you’ll progress and succeed. Fear is not your enemy; it’s a guidepost that tells you you’re on the verge of growth.
The real challenge with fear is how it sneaks into your life in disguise. Often, fear doesn’t show up as pure terror or anxiety. Instead, it appears as hesitation, procrastination, or endless rationalizations for why you can’t do something. You convince yourself that you’re too busy, too inexperienced, or not ready yet. But the truth is, you’re playing the game of fear, and unless you’re aware of it, fear will continue to win.
The first step in mastering this game is awareness. If you don’t recognize that fear is behind your indecision or self-doubt, it will control you. Fear has a clever way of hiding behind “logical” excuses, but the moment you see it for what it is, you gain power over it. Awareness is like turning on a light in a dark room—you can finally see where the obstacles are and start navigating around them.
Once you’ve recognized fear, the next step is to build courage. Awareness without action is meaningless. Courage is the muscle you need to flex if you want to move forward, even when fear is staring you in the face.
Courage doesn’t mean the absence of fear; it means taking action in spite of it. The more you practice courage, the more natural it becomes, until fear loses its grip on you.
However, courage alone won’t take you all the way. You need massive, intentional action in the right direction. Fear thrives in inaction. When you stand still, fear grows, feeding off your doubts and hesitation. But when you take bold steps—whether it's starting that new project, having a difficult conversation, or taking a big risk—fear starts to shrink. The momentum you build by taking action is the antidote to fear’s paralysis.
As you advance in this game, you’ll notice that fear will always be there, waiting for you at each new level of growth. And that’s okay. The key isn’t to eliminate fear; it’s to keep moving forward anyway. Each time you confront fear and act despite it, you grow stronger. The better you get at playing this game, the quicker you’ll progress toward your goals.
In the end, mastering fear isn’t about avoiding it. It’s about understanding that fear is part of the process and learning how to play the game so that fear works for you, not against you. The next time you feel fear creeping in, remember—it’s just a sign that you’re about to level up. So step into the game with your eyes wide open, courage ready, and the willingness to take massive action. Fear is only as powerful as you allow it to be.
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Paulina Stankiewicz, Leadership Coach for CEOs
Paulina is a World Class Leadership Coach for CEOs who excels at igniting iconic presence and personal power in top-tier leaders. She is also an International Speaker and Bestselling Author. For over 15 years, she held senior roles in Global Corporations serving Fortune 100 companies. This experience coupled with her MBA for Executives allows her to bring the business conversations with her clients to the next level. She is focused on improving the culture of organisations — starting with the top. She holds multiple International certifications and has been trained by the best teachers and coaches in the world. Her mission is to change the world, one leader at a time.
