Jodie, founder of Flourish Wellbeing, specialises in women's health and matrescence, offering global coaching to empower mothers through their transformative journey.
After giving birth, I found myself struggling with exhaustion, brain fog, and a sense of overwhelming fatigue that just wouldn’t go away. I thought it was just the normal postpartum tiredness and that it would pass. But months turned into years, and the fatigue persisted, impacting my ability to enjoy motherhood and life. What I didn’t know was that I was experiencing postnatal depletion, a condition that can affect mothers long after childbirth.
Understanding postnatal depletion
Postnatal depletion is a condition that many mothers experience, characterized by prolonged physical and emotional fatigue that can last up to 10 years if left untreated. According to Dr. Oscar Serrallach, an expert on the subject, up to 50% of mothers may experience some form of postnatal depletion. It is a condition that not only affects new mothers but can also persist in seasoned mothers, impacting their health and well-being long-term.
Signs and symptoms of postnatal depletion
Recognizing the signs of postnatal depletion is crucial for seeking appropriate help and making necessary changes. Here are five signs you might be experiencing postnatal depletion:
1. Chronic fatigue
Persistent tiredness that doesn't improve with rest is a hallmark of postnatal depletion. Mothers often feel exhausted, even after a full night's sleep. This fatigue can make everyday tasks seem insurmountable.
2. Brain fog
Difficulty concentrating, forgetfulness, and a general sense of mental cloudiness are common symptoms. Many mothers describe it as feeling like they are in a constant haze, struggling to think clearly.
3. Emotional instability
Mood swings, anxiety, and feelings of overwhelm can plague mothers with postnatal depletion. This emotional turbulence can strain relationships and make it difficult to cope with daily challenges.
4. Physical ailments
Muscle pain, joint aches, and frequent headaches are physical manifestations of postnatal depletion. These symptoms can add to the overall sense of fatigue and discomfort.
5. Nutritional deficiencies
Nutrient depletion is common, with deficiencies in iron, zinc, vitamin D, magnesium and B vitamins frequently observed. These deficiencies can exacerbate feelings of fatigue and weaken the immune system.
Solutions for postnatal depletion
Addressing postnatal depletion requires a multifaceted approach. Here are some strategies to consider:
1. Prioritize nutrition
Eating a balanced diet rich in whole foods, including plenty of fruits, vegetables, lean proteins, and healthy fats, is essential. Consider working with a nutritionist to address specific deficiencies.
2. Rest and recovery
Prioritizing rest and sleep is crucial. Nap when possible, delegate tasks, and create a restful sleep environment. Remember, recovery takes time, and rest is a vital component.
3. Seek support
Don’t hesitate to ask for help. Whether it’s from a partner, family, friends, or professional support like a coach or therapist, building a support network is essential for recovery.
4. Physical activity
Gentle exercise, such as walking, yoga, or swimming, can help improve energy levels and mood. Listen to your body and avoid overexertion.
5. Mindfulness and self-care
Incorporate mindfulness practices such as meditation, deep breathing, and relaxation techniques. Regular self-care activities, like taking a bath, reading, or engaging in a hobby, can also be beneficial.
The role of matrescence
Matrescence, the process of becoming a mother, plays a significant role in postnatal depletion. This transition involves profound physical, emotional, and psychological changes that can leave mothers feeling depleted. Understanding and embracing Matrescence can help mothers navigate these changes more effectively. It’s essential to recognize that feeling depleted doesn’t mean you’re failing as a mother. It’s a natural response to the immense changes and demands of motherhood.
How flourish wellbeing can help
At Flourish Wellbeing, I understand the challenges of postnatal depletion and the transformative journey of Matrescence. My own lived experience with postnatal depletion fuelled my passion for supporting other mothers through this experience. I offer personalized coaching and practical tools designed to help you regain your energy, find balance, and thrive both as an individual and a parent. My goal is to empower you to navigate the complexities of motherhood with confidence and rediscover your true self.
Conclusion
Postnatal depletion is a real and challenging condition that affects many mothers. By recognizing the signs, seeking support, and prioritizing self-care, recovery is possible. Embracing the journey of Matrescence and understanding the profound changes it brings can also aid in overcoming depletion. Remember, you are not alone, and there are resources and support available to help you thrive.
Are you ready to take the first step towards recovery and rediscovering yourself in motherhood?
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Jodie Abraham, Women's Health & Matrescence Coach
Jodie isn't just a Nutrition, Health, and Wellness Coach – she's a compassionate advocate for mothers. With certifications as a Mama Rising Facilitator, Motherhood Coach, and Women's Health and Hormone Coach, Jodie brings expertise and empathy to her practice. As a mother of two who has experienced postnatal depletion and depression herself, she intimately understands the challenges of motherhood, offering non-judgemental support and practical guidance to mothers on their transformative journeys. She deeply believes all mothers deserve to thrive and flourish in motherhood.
