David G Fisher, is a leader in construction management and business development. An experience of severe burn out and stress, after 40 years in construction management and ownership left him broken and un-capable to do his role.
In a world filled with distractions, "Life's Best Kept Secrets" offers a refreshing reminder of what truly matters. This article distils wisdom on cherishing relationships, maintaining health, and valuing experiences over material possessions. It explores trust, fulfilling work, and staying present, highlighting the necessity of laughter, genuine friendships, and irreplaceable moments with loved ones. Encouraging readers to pursue dreams, appreciate small moments, and practice financial prudence, these timeless truths provide a holistic guide to a balanced and meaningful life.
1. Cherish your partner
The most crucial person in your life is who chose to share their life with you. Treat them with the love and respect they deserve.
2. Take care of your health
Whether you live a long or short life, you'll wish you had taken better care of yourself in your younger years. Trust me on this one.
3. Value experiences over stuff
Material objects come and go, but memories last a lifetime. Invest in experiences that bring joy and meaning to your life.
4. Trust in Relationships
Jealousy can be toxic. Trust your significant other because, at the end of the day, trust is the foundation of any strong relationship.
5. Find a good enough job
The right job is one you love some days, can tolerate most days, and that pays the bills. Almost nobody loves their job every single day, and that's okay.
6. Stay present
When life feels overwhelming, take a moment to breathe and savour the beauty around you. Relax and enjoy the present moment.
7. Live a full life before settling down
Don't rush into marriage. Travel, explore, and experience life. Use your freedom to see the world and create unforgettable memories.
8. Laugh often
Life can be absurd and unpredictable. Learn to laugh at its ridiculousness, even in tough times.
9. Value true friendships
A true friend will be there for you at 2 AM, while everyone else is just an acquaintance.
10. Cherish time with children
Kids grow up too fast. Make the most of every moment you have with them.
11. Balance work and life
No one ever dies wishing they had worked more. Work hard, but don't let it come before your family, friends, or well-being.
12. Eat and exercise wisely
Treat your body as if you were already a diabetic heart patient. This way, you may never become one.
13. Floss regularly
It might not sound profound, but dental problems are a real pain. Keep your teeth and gums healthy.
14. Trust yourself
Advice is helpful, but ultimately, you must make your own decisions. Trust your judgment and instincts.
15. Protect your joints
The joints you damage today will remind you of it later. Take care of them now to avoid regrets in the future.
16. Pursue your dreams
Don't wait until you're 60 to realize you have yet to do what you dreamed. Start now and make those dreams a reality.
17. Appreciate the small moments
Life's greatest pleasures often come from mundane activities. Be present and appreciate the little things.
18. Stay debt-free
Pay your bills and avoid debt. The money you save on interest could be the key to an earlier retirement.
19. Chase your dreams
If you have an impossible dream, go for it anyway. It only gets harder as you age and take on more responsibilities.
20. See beyond first impressions
When you meet someone new, remember that you know nothing about them beyond surface-level traits. Let go of biases and allow yourself to truly get to know people.
A big thank you to my friend Jeff Veale for all his wisdom and business knowledge.
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David G Fisher, Construction Owners Exit & Succession Consultant
David G Fisher, is a leader in construction management and business development. An experience of severe burn out and stress, after 40 years in construction management and ownership left him broken and un-capable to do his role. David then initiated strategies to dramatically enhance his skills and performance to conquer these obstacles. He has since dedicated his life to helping other construction owners unleash their true potential to get their businesses and themselves back on track. He is the CEO of Construction Consulting and Coaching; the premiere construction owners exit program. His mission: We don’t need to be prisoners in our own businesses.
