Written by: Tom & Ania Yatar, Executive Contributor
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The path towards abundance is a subtle dance between pushing and allowing, between striving and surrendering, between taking action and letting go. Your mindset towards money is fundamental when you want to create more income and achieve financial freedom. When it comes to surrendering, you let go of the need to succeed and control the outcome, and instead, you trust that all the resources you need will come to you in their divine timing.
Surrender isn't about giving up, giving power over, or losing. It is not waving the white flag of failure. Each one of us, at a point, strived and tried so hard to achieve a specific outcome than anything else seemed like defeat. Well, it isn't. Surrender is the climax of developed and knowledgeable behavior.
Surrender is the beautiful space of acceptance and letting go. It is allowing—allowing for life to unfold in front of you exactly how it's supposed to. No matter what alternator motives, expectations, or agendas you might have had. It's that arms-wide-open energy goes down to only one thing. And that is trust. Putting your complete trust in the Universe that you know you will be ok no matter what happens. The current situation might not be perfect or going according to your plan, but know that everything is going to turn out exactly how it's supposed to for your highest good.
Why do we want to give in to surrender?
Because this is how we get our way.
When we surrender, this is when we can experience real freedom. Free from our limiting beliefs, negative talk, drama, emotional blocks, all the stuff that is stuck within ourselves that is not allowing us to transform and be our highest potential. This will prevent you from reaching your goals and living an extraordinary life.
At first, it might be hard. There will be a lot of resistance. But focus on your goals and your surrender. Eventually, it will happen, and it will take over your body completely. Let go. Let go. Let go. You will discover you're slowly surrendering without even knowing.
Once you surrender, you will be ready to receive, ultimately able to manifest the life that you desire. You will be open and willing to embrace these new changes with a completely free heart and be able to take anything that comes your way. ,
If we want to understand surrender, we need to look at its opposite.
Control
To be obsessed with control means that you lack faith in the ability of the Universe to provide for your needs. Those who want to always be in control act from profound scarcity, which they want to replenish with the need to manipulate the environment around them. However, the concept of control is illusory and blind since we have way too little control over the vastness of the Universe. The only things we can control are our thoughts and actions, and attempting to go beyond those is relatively futile and not realistic. To cooperate with the Universe, we must learn to surrender and let go. To accept our vulnerability and impermanence and trust that everything works according to our greatest good.
So How Do We Surrender?
There are three different ways that we can grow to the point of surrender:
Lack of Control
Sometimes you wonder if you would change or leave a negative situation that is happening right now. When the answer is no, you feel like you have your definite answer. Most of the time, we have no control of the situation, but we control how we choose to act over the crisis. Are we upset? Angry? Sad? Or do we look on the bright side and give gratitude? How you act is surrendering.
When Things Fall Apart
You had a death in the family. Your website crashed. Your car got hit. This all feels like everything is always going wrong. This is an opportunity for you to surrender, whether you realize it or not. If you don't recognize these actions, then you're going to go down that spiral. Instead of trying to fight it, perhaps a deep breath and a reminder to trust will throw you securely into the arms of surrender—a more calm response.
Things fall apart because we need to learn to work with the chaos of uncertainty and because we need to understand the important lesson of trust. A calm mind is the result of secure confidence in the Universe. When you have faith that things will work out, you are not shaken when a crisis shows up. Instead, you let go of your need to understand what is happening and surrender to things' natural flow. The problem will disappear in the same way that it has appeared in your life. You are strong enough to withstand any chaotic situation, and you have all the tools you need to overcome it.
By Choice
Through intuition, our mental state, personal development, we invite surrender in. But we have to choose to see reality as surrender and notice it when it is in front of us.
Surrender is a form of letting go of the energy that you can not control. When we surrender our control, we step out of the way and allow the Universe to guide us to where we're supposed to go. We also tell the Universe that we are ready to receive. Tap into the abundant possibilities available to us, and manifest the life you desire with no restrictions.
Energy flows where attention goes, so open up and set yourself Free! Trying to control the world around you is a waste of energy - instead, learn to let and accept that we are tiny particles in an expansive universe. We can take care of our thoughts and actions and leave the rest to the Universe.
To let go of the need to control the world around means to connect to your inner grace and wisdom. And when we are in class, we manifest things from a place of inner peace and profound acceptance. A still heart is mighty and can create more miracles than a noisy mind. Therefore, let your heart be still and surrender to the Universe, knowing that everything will fall into its place in its divine timing. You have everything you need to thrive and flourish in the world.
Tom & Ania Yatar, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Tom & Ania Yatar are world travelers who have helped thousands of people attract financial wealth, mental & emotional health, perfect physical health, relational and spiritual wealth. We both started out working jobs that left us living paycheck to paycheck, exhausted and worn out. We were only able to dream that we’d ever get to live the lives we truly wanted, longing for the freedom to live life on our own terms, and time to enjoy life to the fullest. Individually we each set out creating our own businesses and learning new skills, where eventually, we both came to understand the importance of mindset and its effect on our businesses. The way we created consistency in our marketing and the abundance mindset for ourselves is the exact same methods we teach to our students now.
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