As a Life Mastery Certified Coach®, Susan integrates spirituality with practicality, guiding women to discover their unique Soul Goal™ and chart a personal path to success and happiness. Unlock your inner wisdom, align your heart with your mind, and uncover actionable steps that resonate with your authentic self.
As we journey through life, we often find ourselves playing various roles shaped by societal expectations, familial influences, and personal beliefs. For many of us, the path to discovering our power and prioritizing our needs can be a transformative process.
Growing up, I embraced the roles of a "good girl" and a "dutiful daughter" with open arms. These labels came with a set of expectations, rooted in my Catholic upbringing, emphasizing selflessness and service to others. As a child, this molding was necessary for developing kindness and empathy, but as I entered adulthood, it became apparent that I had to reassess the dynamics of power and self-fulfillment.
Transition to adulthood
The challenge arose when I brought these learned behaviors into my marriage, unknowingly becoming a "good wife." It took time for me to realize that I had the power to create a life I loved, one that might not align with everyone else's expectations. This realization marked a significant milestone in my journey toward self-discovery and empowerment.
Understanding your power
Knowing that you have the power to shape your destiny is a profound realization, but we don’t live in a vacuum, at least I don’t! It was essential for me to strike a balance between personal desires and the needs of my family members. This balance, for me, lies in the delicate dance between "me" and "we."
The balancing act
Avoiding the label of "selfish" was also a common struggle for me and many women who are navigating their paths to self-discovery. I found that communication, especially compassionate communication, is the key to maintaining this delicate equilibrium. When everyone feels heard and valued, it becomes easier to navigate the challenges of balancing individual desires with the needs of the collective.
Compassionate communication
The journey to self-discovery and empowerment is not about disregarding the needs of others but finding a harmonious balance where everyone's well-being is considered. By making choices that align with your authentic self, you pave the way for a fulfilling life without compromising your values or losing sight of the importance of connection.
The wise woman says
As women, we navigate the intricate path of self-discovery and empowerment, learning to embrace the power within us. The journey from being a "good girl" to a woman who consciously creates a life she loves is marked by self-reflection, compassionate communication, and the courage to make choices that align with our true selves. Remember, you have the power to shape your destiny, and by using that power wisely, you can build a life that reflects your authentic desires while nurturing the relationships that matter most.
Susan F. Moody Intuitive Business, Life, and Success Coach
Susan F. Moody, Wise Woman, is dedicated to empowering women to tap into their own inner wisdom and discover the power of intentional living. Along her personal journey, Susan became a wisdom seeker looking for ways to connect with the divine for inspiration and guidance. She started working with the I Ching, angel cards, wisdom cards, runes and pendulum work over 20 years ago and now offers these spiritual insight tools as an option to her clients. She has also developed a tangible technique, the Soul Goal™ finder, to help clients answer the contemplative question “Why am I here?”
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