Written by: Bahar Selman, Executive Contributor
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Know when you see someone successful in many ways, it wasn’t through chance or luck. The fact is that they learned to think in ways that led to their success. When you look for areas in your mind that need improvement, you can achieve anything. For inspiration, you can look at the mindsets of other successful people. We will guide you with some examples.
But before we start, What is a mindset?
A mindset is a collection of beliefs that influence how you perceive the world and yourself. It has an impact on how you think, feels, and act in any scenario. So, your mindset affects your place in the world.
Here are five mindsets from successful people that you can adopt.
1. Be goal-oriented with stable emotions
Setting goals is not just about deciding what you want to achieve. It requires you to research and plan every step of the way. You also should have a clear understanding of the emotional satisfaction of your possible accomplishments. It’s critical to understand what accomplishing your goals entails and what it says about you. If you don’t understand why you’re pursuing specific goals, you risk taking a road that won’t satisfy you.
Martin Luther King Jr., Mother Teresa, Steve Jobs, Nelson Mandela, and Oskar Schindler all lived their lives following who they truly were. Some of them paid a high price for following their dreams. However, none of them would prefer it any other way.
2. Be aware of yourself and accept it
Successful people share one trait: They are aware of their advantages and disadvantages. They accept themselves as they are and work with what they have. For example, we can talk about Bill Gates, the founder of Microsoft. He is almost everyone’s definition of a successful person. He accepted his introverted nature and worked with it. The business world is dominated by extroverts. When asked how introverts can compete in that world, Gates answered that introverts can perform pretty well. H says you can learn to use the benefits of being an introvert if you’re smart. Being aware of his qualities made him a successful business person.
3. Accept that you will face difficulties
For successful people, the difficulty is unavoidable. They don’t complain about it since they understand how the world works. There is little learning or progress without difficulty and failure. This is a mindset we should all adopt. As the Dalai Lama says, pain is unavoidable, but suffering is a choice. Successful people struggle and experience difficulties, but they do not suffer because they live their lives and pursue goals that are consistent with their personalities.
4. How you think is how you act
You will never be successful if you constantly worry about failure and setbacks. This is because you are already defeated in your mind. So, if you think big, you’ll connect your actions with your ideas and attract the success you want. Your behaviors will also be influenced if you are always thinking negatively. This is a mindset adopted by Henry Ford, founder of the Ford Motor Company. He adopted the mindset of “Whether you think you can or you can’t, you are right.” This is how he became a successful businessman. He always believed in himself.
5. Dare to dream big and stand out
We have a tendency to think little and not dare to be different. Our educational system has conditioned us to be average and consistent. People around us have conditioned us to think and act in a certain way. This is why the majority of people are ordinary. But successful people are not ordinary, and Arnold Schwarzenegger is an example. He was in the army when he entered the first bodybuilding competition many years ago. He ran away from the army camp and went to the tournament. He faced the consequences and got punished when he returned, but he reached the success he wanted. Can you dare to dream big like Arnold Schwarzenegger?
These are the five mindsets of successful people. You can accomplish it if you believe you can.
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Bahar Selman, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Bahar Selman is an ICF accredited professional coach (ACC) and a master trainer focusing on personal and professional growth, building confidence, and leadership. Her mission is to help many millennials achieve success and fulfilment in both their careers and lives. She successfully managed brands and led professional teams in companies like Danone, Hayat, Diageo, and Red Bull for over a decade.
She has been serving clients globally with personal and business coaching, delivering training programs and workshops. Bahar has actively trained over 5.000 individuals worldwide through online and offline platforms.
Through her continued wide reaches, she can also help promote her passion for diversity and inclusion with a focus point on supporting women in their career paths.
