Written by: Skye Louise Baxter, Executive Contributor
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In today's fast-paced world, it's easy to overlook the powerful role that anger can play in our lives. But understanding and embracing our anger can be a crucial step towards personal healing and empowerment.
Suppressing anger: A common misstep
For generations, women have often been conditioned to stifle their anger, conforming to societal expectations of being quiet, polite, and small. This suppression can lead to passive-aggressive behaviors and unexpressed frustrations.
Internalized messages: The silent impact
Sometimes, the most potent messages aren't spoken but rather internalized. Many women have experienced disapproval or punishment when attempting to express anger. These experiences can shape beliefs and behaviors, affecting self-esteem and relationships.
Breaking the cycle: A path to healing
Recognizing the influence of childhood conditioning is the first step in breaking free from the cycle of suppressed anger. Whether communicated directly or implied through behaviors, these limitations impact our self-expression and confidence.
The power of anger in healing
Contrary to its negative connotations, anger can be a force for positive change. It resonates at a higher vibrational frequency than guilt, shame, and apathy, making it a catalyst for transformation. Embracing anger can lead to personal growth and the unlearning of limiting beliefs.
Transforming through anger
By acknowledging the constructive potential of anger, individuals can break free from toxic patterns. Viewing revenge as a force for change and growth shifts the focus from retaliation to personal development. Thriving and self-love become the ultimate forms of revenge against toxic influences.
Empowering relationships
As individuals move beyond anger, they open the door to personal growth. This higher vibration naturally distances them from manipulative influences, enabling them to establish healthier boundaries and communicate their needs effectively.
In conclusion
Anger isn't just an emotion to be suppressed; it's a tool for healing and empowerment. By understanding the societal conditioning that stifles anger expression, particularly in women, we can break free from these constraints. Embracing anger's role in personal growth leads to healthier relationships and a more fulfilled life. Remember, the ultimate revenge is living your best life and thriving, demonstrating your self-worth and personal growth.
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Skye Louise Baxter, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Skye is a healer specializing in shadow work, healing the generational trauma, after growing up with a family that abused her, mentally, physically and sexually leaving her growing up feeling like she had no self worth and continuing the cycle by entering into many abusive relationships before she had a complete mental breakdown at the age of 21 , finding out she has C-ptsd, depression and a serve anxiety disorder. skye made the choice to begin to heal so she could break the cycle and love her life. Skye has always had a strong calling to help others and now she hears the call to guide others to heal through 1;1 mentoring and coaching.
