Written by Kelsey Bornyk, Beautifully Broken Transformations
Kelsey Bornyk is an esteemed artist, creator and coach, pioneering in therapeutic art and mindfulness to empower busy entrepreneur women to flourish, transform their challenges, break through barriers and step back into their power. Founder of Beautifully Broken Transformations, she leverages her experiences to help guide others on their journey.
Ever declined a golden opportunity because the mere thought of public speaking made your heart race? You're not alone. Join transformative coach Kelsey Bornyk on her journey from backstage introvert to podcast guest, and discover how embracing visibility can transform your business – and yourself.
The introverted entrepreneur's dilemma
Picture this: Your inbox pings with an invitation to showcase your expertise on a popular podcast. Instead of excitement, you feel a wave of panic. Sound familiar? This was precisely my experience when the WomenUp podcast came calling.
As entrepreneurs, particularly introverted ones, we often grapple with the visibility our success demands. We excel in one-on-one interactions but balk at the spotlight. It's a common dilemma rooted in fears of judgment, imposter syndrome, and memories of past fumbles.
Shadows of the past
My journey with visibility started in childhood. Despite a love for creative arts, I'd freeze when asked to present in class. Every atom in my body seemed to vibrate with anxiety, my mind going blank. Having dyslexia and undiagnosed ADHD added extra layers of challenge, though I wouldn't realize this until much later.
The saboteur within
Fast forward to my entrepreneurial life, and that same fear threatened to sabotage a crucial opportunity. When the podcast invitation arrived, my first instinct was to let it "percolate" – a polite term for procrastination. I recognized my "Avoider" saboteur at work, trying to keep me safe in the shadows.
But here's the thing about shadows: they keep us small.
Growth happens in the light.
Naming it to tame it
Acknowledging my fear was the first step. Understanding its roots – those childhood experiences and the undiagnosed learning differences – allowed me to approach the challenge with self-compassion. Most importantly, I made a decision: I wouldn't let fear dictate my business choices anymore.
So, I hit "reply" and said yes to the podcast.
Embracing imperfection
Was it perfect? Far from it. My mind went blank at times. I stumbled over words and peppered my speech with more "ums" and "uhs" than I'd like to admit. But here's the key: it was perfectly imperfect. It was authentically me, showing up and sharing my expertise despite my fears.
A side note for my fellow dyslexics: I've since learned that many of us use filler words as our brains process information. It's not an embarrassing trait – it's just part of how our unique minds work.
The power of practice
Each time we step into visibility, it gets a little easier. It's about progress, not perfection. Every podcast, video, or speaking engagement becomes a stepping stone in building our confidence muscle.
Strategies for stepping into the spotlight
For fellow introvert entrepreneurs looking to boost their visibility, here are some strategies that worked for me:
Start small: Begin with written content, progress to video, and then tackle live appearances.
Reframe mistakes as lessons: Keep a "growth journal" to track your progress.
Celebrate every step: Acknowledge your courage in trying something new.
Prepare thoroughly: Research your topic, practice deep breathing, and visualize success.
Embrace your authentic self: Your unique perspective is your greatest asset.
The ripple effect of visibility
As you embrace your business presence, you'll likely find new doors opening. My podcast appearance led to unexpected connections and collaborations. More importantly, it reinforced a powerful truth: your voice matters. Your expertise is valuable. The world needs what you have to offer.
Breaking past barriers
So, let me ask you this: What's one small step you can take this week to step out of the shadows and into your spotlight? Remember, we're in this journey together, and every step forward counts. Your perfectly imperfect presence is precisely what your business – and the world – needs.
By breaking past our barriers and stepping into our power, we transform our businesses and inspire others to do the same. It's time to embrace your business presence and shine your light brightly.
Listen to the podcast
Ready to hear more about how the podcast went firsthand? I invite you to listen to my episode on the WomenUp podcast. Here we talk about conquering self-sabotaging behaviour and productivity in our businesses!
Click here to listen to the episode and join me in this transformative experience. Remember, every expert was once a beginner, and your journey starts with that first step into the spotlight. Let's embrace our visibility together!
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Kelsey Bornyk, Beautifully Broken Transformations
Kelsey Bornyk is an esteemed artist, creator, and transformative coach specializing in therapeutic art and mindfulness for busy entrepreneur women as they navigate the complexities of stress, overwhelm, and life's turbulence. Drawing from her battle with chronic health conditions, mental health challenges, overwhelm and a profound shift from 14 years in corporate registry work to entrepreneurship, she founded Beautifully Broken Transformations. Her work, deeply rooted in her journey towards healing and empowerment, aims to guide and inspire individuals from feeling stress and overwhelm to a state of calm, clarity and empowerment.
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