A former lawyer turned mystic, Jessica Falcon is an International Soul Embodiment Guide & Relationship Expert. She guides you to embody your power, reclaim your sovereignty, and
experience true freedom.
Jessica spent years researching religious history, ancient civilizations, and mythology to get to the root of unequal power dynamics in relationships. She has identified the core beliefs and
wounds you must confront in order to experience shared power and freedom in relationships.
During her retreats, workshops, and online portals of transformation, you are guided to access your soul’s truth while simultaneously releasing all that is not your truth. As you embody your divinity, you activate your sexual life force energy and revolutionize your relationships. Jessica hosts the Soul Sovereignty & Sexuality Podcast, which is available on all major platforms.
Jessica Falcon, Soul Embodiment Guide & Relationship Expert
Before we dive into your story, tell us how you define sovereignty.
To be sovereign is to sit on one's throne: the throne of your own divinity. When you anchor into the truth of your soul, you reclaim your power back from all external forces. You embody your true power, which is divine power. You know who you are.
As you release all that is not your truth inherited beliefs, absorbed social conditioning, karmic imprints, and soul traumas you become your own authority. You source love, safety, and belonging from within, which releases patterns of codependency, unhealthy attachments, and self-sacrifice or self-denial.
In other words, when you become sovereign, you create freedom in all of your relationships. Not because you change others but because you show up differently. You show up fully as you, fully expressed, grounded in the truth of who you are.
If you are teaching others how to reclaim their sovereignty, I imagine that you had to walk this path yourself. How did you discover your own sovereignty?
The short answer is that my soul guided me onto the path to sovereignty. Like most, my focus was primarily on the external world: achieving success, climbing the ladder, constantly doing more, and being more. In college, I worked on Capitol Hill and for the Governor's Office. Then, I served as an attorney and criminal prosecutor for 7 years. Everyone joked that I would become the first female president of the United States. I was a staunch women's rights advocate for over 10 years and started organizations to end violence against women.
While I was connected to my soul, I did not know how to live from that place. In other words, I saw myself through the eyes of others rather than seeing myself through the eyes of my soul until August 2008. I was prosecuting a large jury trial when a tropical storm dumped 13 inches of rain overnight. I had to be rescued by firefighters, as the parking lot of the townhome I recently purchased was chest-high with water. I lost nearly everything in a matter of hours.
I began to question: what am I doing and why? I sought out meditation, and a teacher arrived. Less than a year later, I had a serious bicycle accident. When I looked in the mirror a few days after the accident, my face was deformed. At first, I backed up in horror. Then, my eyes caught themselves in the mirror.
The realization rose up from deep within: I am not my body. I was so much more.
While my body housed me, it did not confine me. This is key on the path to sovereignty.
Can you explain more about why the body is the key to sovereignty?
The soul is the individuated aspect of the divine that is you. While the soul is not limited to the body, it forms and creates the physical body. Therefore, we can access the truth of the soul by learning to connect with the energy of the body (which is the energy of the soul).
Sovereignty requires learning how to connect with the truth of your soul by connecting to your body as energy. This is something that I teach in my Sacred Body Wisdom Foundational Series online because it is so essential. We do not become sovereign through the mind alone.
Once I began to go into my body, not as a physical object but as a communication device, everything began to change. I accessed my emotions in a new way. I heard the voice of my soul. I began to know myself: my true Self. My soul Self. My own divinity.
How did you pivot from being a criminal prosecutor to a Soul Embodiment Guide?
Over time, the disconnect between what I was doing and what I felt inside became too strong to ignore. I knew that my soul was calling me to leave everything, but it made no sense to my rational mind. I wanted to cling onto a sense of external safety. After all, I had gone to law school and was very successful. Why should I leave everything I spent years building to follow a soul calling with no plan and no idea where I was going or why?
Eventually, my soul won the tug of war. I surrendered. I left everything: my job, my home, my belongings, even my country. In 2013, I embarked on a spiritual pilgrimage to Europe.
Unbeknownst to me, I was actually embarking on a path of initiation, the fruits of which I use today in my work as an International Soul Embodiment Guide.
What happened during your spiritual initiation?
When I left the States to travel to Europe on a spiritual pilgrimage, I planned to visit sacred sites connected with the divine feminine. However, the real journey was learning how to trust my inner world and stop seeking external validation or permission. To drop down out of my head deeper into my body. To find sensual pleasure in each moment. To let my body become my compass. To let go of all the shoulds, all the expectations, all the external demands. To begin to live from the inside out, which is to be sovereign rather than taking the external world in and making it mine. All of this is essential to reclaiming your sovereignty.
After a couple of months of travel, I arrived on the mountain of La St. Baume in southern France.
Some say that Mary Magdalene lived there the last 30 years of her life. The French have kept the wisdom and mysteries of Magdalene alive that were intentionally distorted and buried by the church.
While hiking up the gravel path to the cave of Magdalene, a man turned onto the trail in front of me. Immediately, a voice announced, "He is your soulmate."
Laughing out loud, I retorted, "I am here for Magdalene, not a man. Besides, I have to see his eyes to know if he is my soulmate." Hours later, when I descended the stone steps, I looked up to see the same man walking down behind me. Once he reached my side, he began to speak to me in French. We spoke the whole way down the mountain. At its base, he took off his sunglasses, and I saw the dazzling light in his eyes. Our fairytale romance commenced.
However, it quickly turned into a nightmare the day we moved in together six months later. Suddenly, everything about me threatened him: my power, my intelligence, my sexuality. I found myself apologizing for who I was, hiding the parts of me he didn't like, silencing my truth.
You had been a women’s rights advocate for over 10 years when you met your partner. Why did you stay in an abusive relationship?
Consciously, I knew something was wrong with his violence toward me. Yet, I continued to stay despite his verbal attacks, criticism, manipulation, refusal to accept my no, and threats to kill himself if I left. Why? Because for millennia, we have all men and women been subjected to a belief system that equates love with possession, sacrifice, and self-denial.
It didn't matter how much I consciously disagreed with these beliefs because my subconscious mind ruled the day. Biologist Bruce Lipton has helped us understand that 95% of our behavior, actions, and choices are ruled by the subconscious mind (which means beneath the level of consciousness). The subconscious mind shows up in how we feel, not what we think.
I felt responsible for his feelings. I felt it was all my fault if he was upset. I felt something was wrong with me. I felt guilty when I spoke my truth. I felt selfish for having a self.
I also knew - despite the dark hole I found myself in that I was experiencing the relationship for a reason. I started to identify and write down the subconscious beliefs that kept me bound to him. I knew I could not simply leave. I had to pull my power back and reclaim my sovereignty in order to set myself free. I had to heal the karmic patterns within myself that gave him authority over me. I had to see my Self and stop waiting for him to see me.
How did you begin to reclaim your Self and your power?
I saw my Self by going into my body, especially by connecting with the energy of my womb. We all have an energetic womb, regardless of whether we have a physical womb. The womb holds our inner needs, feelings, and desires. It is also where we store many of our suppressed emotions, including anger. I’d told myself it was okay for him to feel his anger, but that it wasn’t okay for me to feel my anger.
The anger, however, was there for a reason. It said, “See me!” As I witnessed the anger and opened to receive its wisdom, I began to honor my own choice rather than choosing what was best for him. Boundaries naturally arose as I decided what I was and wasn’t willing to tolerate.
During the relationship, I had become consumed with my partner’s experience and neglected my own. This is pretty common. I see it in female clients from around the world, regardless of how they were raised. It makes sense when we receive the message as women that it is selfish to have a Self. We’re taught to focus on the other person and “make them happy,” “give them what they want,” and “put their needs first.”
My mind would have kept me in those loops, but my body helped me see my own soul’s truth.
That’s why I do soul embodiment work. I know that when we access the truth of our soul, we come face to face with the parts of ourselves we have denied, forgotten, and cast aside. I allowed myself to feel what I needed to feel to put myself back together and return to a state of wholeness.
I had to stop letting him decide who I was. I had to decide who I was by seeing myself through the eyes of my soul rather than the eyes of others. It was a journey of connecting with and creating an internal identity that was self-sourced. This allowed me to recognize all the ways I gave my power away. I reclaimed my sovereignty by sourcing love, safety, and belonging from within.
Ultimately, I realized that I could not love myself and stay in the relationship. I had to leave. What I realized is that true love never comes at the expense of the Self. It always includes the Self and overflows to others. It is rooted in choice.
Can you talk more about what true love is? I know that part of your expertise is helping people to create shared power and freedom in their relationships. Is that what you mean by true love?
Yes. We have all been subject to what I call "false forms of love": "I belong to you." "You complete me." "I can't live without you." "I need you." "You fulfill me."
We romanticize need-based relationships, which creates codependency and toxic relationships. Codependency is created when both people seek the other to fulfill their needs: the need to be loved, the need for approval, the need to feel valued, the need for validation or permission, for example. Societal norms affirm this because we are taught to base our identities on what we do and how others view us, rather than basing our identity on who we are - our true, inner Self.
I have spent years researching religious history, ancient civilizations, and mythology to get to the root of these unequal power dynamics in relationships. The beliefs that bind us in relationships today were formulated thousands of years ago and can be traced back to the story of Adam and Eve.
They tell us that god exists outside of us. They granted men "divine authority" to rule over women. They prohibited women from having a Self, choosing for herself, or experiencing her own sexuality. The list goes on.
What I help my clients do is untether themselves from the core wounds of shame, guilt, doubt, blame, fear, and unworthiness. I guide them to connect with their own soul, which is to come into ecstatic union with their divinity here in form. This activates their life force energy and creates the capacity for deep intimacy, sacred sexuality, and true love.
The reclamation of one's sovereignty means that we enter into relationships from a place of inner fullness and choice, not lack or need (which is quite common!). An example of a need-based relationship is needing to be loved, feeling lonely when you’re alone, or believing you can’t “make it on your own” without a partner.
When each person learns how to source love from within and operate from a place of embodied wholeness, there are no unhealthy attachments. You don’t “need” the other person to conform to your expectations or demands. You don’t “need” the other person to change who they are so you can be happy. You don’t “need” the other person to validate how you feel in order to act on your own soul knowing.
You don't hide who you are. You don't silence your truth. You don't become who they want you to be. You are not loved for what you do or how you make others feel but for who you are.
Based on your experience working with clients from around the world, what is the biggest belief we must face in order to reclaim our sovereignty and experience freedom in relationships?
The belief that you must prove yourself worthy of love. You are love. The "work" is to embody the love that you are. You align every aspect of your being thoughts, feelings, choices, words to this truth.
If somebody wants to embody their power and reclaim their sovereignty to experience true freedom, how do they start? What offerings do you have to support them?
The path to sovereignty starts with a decision. It is the decision to say yes to your Self, your truth, your freedom. That's why I created a free Ritual to reclaim your Sovereignty that you can access on my website.
Sovereignty requires deep levels of self-knowledge. An unconscious choice isn't really a choice at all. You have to anchor into your soul's truth while releasing all that is not your truth. This requires clearing out your subconscious mind (the unconscious blocks, beliefs, and traumas that keep you stuck in repetitive patterns).
This cannot be done with the mind alone. The subconscious is accessed and transformed through your energetic and emotional state. I teach people how to access the energy of their soul and align every aspect of their being to their soul's truth in my online Sacred Body Wisdom Foundational Series, which you can access here.
It includes eight activations and embodiment practices that help you embody your power and reclaim your sovereignty. There are teachings and journal prompts to take you into your
subconscious mind, clear stagnant energies and emotions, and activate your life force energy.
Some people prefer more individualized attention, so I also offer a 1:1 private portal of transformation to Embody your Sacred, Sovereign Power. We work on all levels of your being - energetic, emotional, physical, and spiritual - so you fully liberate yourself across lifetimes. You can learn more and schedule a free 30-minute Sovereignty Breakthrough Session with me here.
Do you have any final words for the reader?
Spend time with yourself every day, even if it is simply to sit in silence for a few moments. Feel the unique essence of you. Give it space to breathe, to talk to you, to expand. It is in the silence that we truly hear.
