Written by Aisha Saintiche, Certified Health Coach
With over fifteen years of experience in Mental Health, Accessibility and Diversity and Inclusion, Aisha has used her experience as a strategic advisor and health coach to understand the complexity and intersectionality of the mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual barriers that keep people from achieving their optimized health and wellness.
As parents, our roles evolve over time, often in ways we don't fully realize until we step back and reflect. Recently, I experienced a profound shift in perspective: I am no longer parenting little girls; I am now leading young black women in this world. This realization is both empowering and humbling, carrying with it a deep sense of responsibility and pride.
When they were younger, my focus was on nurturing and protecting my daughters, teaching them basic life skills, and guiding them through the simplicity of childhood. We ensured they felt loved, safe, and supported, laying a foundation for their future growth. These were the formative years, filled with bedtime stories, playful adventures, and countless teachable moments.
However, as they have grown, so too have their needs and the nature of my role. My daughters are no longer little girls; they are blossoming into intelligent, capable, and ambitious young Black women. This transition calls for a shift from merely parenting to truly leading.
Leading young Black women in today’s world means equipping them with the tools to navigate a society that may not always be welcoming or fair. It involves instilling in them a strong sense of identity, resilience, and confidence. It requires open and honest conversations about race, gender, and the unique challenges they may face. It means modeling strength and vulnerability, showing them how to stand tall in the face of adversity and to take up space while staying true to themselves.
This journey is about fostering their independence while being a steady source of support. It’s about encouraging them to pursue their passions and dreams, even when the path is uncertain or fraught with obstacles. It’s guiding them to become leaders in their own right, capable of making a difference in their communities and beyond.
Moreover, leading young Black women involves a commitment to continuous learning and self-improvement. As they evolve, so must I. I strive to understand their world, their challenges, and their aspirations. I seek to be a role model, not only through my words but through my actions, demonstrating the values of integrity, perseverance, and empathy.
This realization also brings a profound sense of pride. Seeing my daughters grow into remarkable young women who are poised to make their mark on the world is incredibly rewarding. They are strong, compassionate, and intelligent, and they inspire me every day with their courage and determination.
In embracing this new role, I am reminded that the journey of parenting is never static. It is a dynamic, evolving process that requires us to adapt and grow alongside our children. As I transition from parenting little girls to leading young Black women, I do so with gratitude, humility, and an unwavering commitment to their success and well-being.
To all the parents experiencing similar realizations, know that this evolution is a testament to your hard work and dedication. Embrace the journey, continue to lead with love and wisdom, and take pride in the incredible young people you are guiding into the future. Together, we can help shape a world where they can thrive and make a lasting impact.
Aisha Saintiche, Certified Health Coach
Aisha Saintiche is a certified Health Coach and the founder and owner of MetoMoi Health. With over fifteen years of experience in Mental Health, Accessibility and Diversity and Inclusion, Aisha has used her experience as a strategic advisor and health coach to understand the complexity and intersectionality of the mental, physical, emotional, and spiritual barriers that keep people from achieving their optimized health and wellness.
