Dr. Anna M L Smith is a UK-based doctor who offers a holistic lifestyle and mind-body approach, caring for patients with chronic pain and medically unexplained symptoms. She is the founder of Health and Wellness GP in Oxfordshire.
As the holiday season is upon us, I want to take a moment to wish you a very Happy Christmas. While this time of year brings joy, excitement, and the warmth of togetherness, it can also be overwhelming. The festive hustle and bustle—shopping, cooking, decorating, and hosting—often leave us feeling frazzled and stressed. That’s why this year, I encourage you to embrace a mind-body approach to navigating the holiday season, and to prioritize calm, balance, and well-being.
Cultivate mindfulness this holiday
One of the most powerful ways to reduce stress during the holiday season is to practice mindfulness. Mindfulness is the art of being fully present in the moment, without judgment. In the whirlwind of holiday preparations, it's easy to become distracted, thinking about the next task on your to-do list or worrying about what you might have forgotten. Instead, try to centre yourself in the here and now.
Take a few moments to savour the food you’re sharing with loved ones. Rather than rushing through a meal, pause to appreciate the flavours and textures. As you admire the Christmas lights, truly take them in—the colours, the sparkle, the joy they bring. Even something as simple as a moment of connection with a loved one—whether human or pet—can be a source of deep contentment. Mindfulness helps you slow down, allowing you to enjoy the little moments that make the season so special.
Listen to your body
The holiday season often comes with a heightened sense of busyness, but it’s important to listen to your body’s signals throughout the festivities. If you start feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or stressed, take a step back. Prioritize your physical and emotional well-being by practicing self-care.
Getting enough rest is crucial. It may be tempting to stay up late wrapping presents or attending one more party, but sacrificing sleep can leave you feeling drained and irritable. Remember, a well-rested body is more resilient to stress. Staying hydrated and eating wholesome, nourishing foods will also help support your mental and physical health. Simple adjustments—such as drinking more water or choosing a healthy snack over a sugary one—can make a big difference in how you feel.
In addition to these basic self-care practices, don’t forget to check in with yourself mentally. The holidays can bring up complex emotions, and it’s okay to acknowledge if you're feeling lonely, stressed, or anxious. Taking a moment to pause, reflect, and address these feelings can help you avoid burnout.
Set realistic expectations
One of the main sources of stress during the holiday season is the pressure to make everything perfect. We often set high expectations for ourselves, whether it’s in decorating our homes, cooking elaborate meals, or finding the perfect gift for everyone on our list. However, it’s important to remember that the holidays don’t have to be flawless to be meaningful.
Embrace the imperfections! The spilled drink, the slightly overcooked roast, or the last-minute wrapping are all part of the charm. Christmas isn’t about perfection—it's about enjoying time with loved ones, making memories, and embracing the warmth of the season. By letting go of unattainable ideals, you free yourself from unnecessary stress and allow space for true enjoyment.
Connect with loved ones
The heart of Christmas lies in the connections we share. While gift-giving is a cherished tradition, it’s the moments of togetherness and meaningful conversation that make the season unforgettable. This year, consider focusing on quality time with those who matter most—whether that’s through shared meals, cozy chats by the fire, or even a long walk in nature.
If you can’t be with family and friends in person, make time for virtual connections. A heartfelt phone call or video chat can help bridge the distance, making the season feel more intimate and special. Remember, the best gift you can give is your presence and attention.
Incorporate relaxation techniques
Amid the holiday chaos, it’s essential to take time for relaxation and rejuvenation. Whether you find peace through meditation, deep breathing exercises, or simply taking a leisurely walk in nature, integrating moments of calm into your routine can significantly reduce stress.
If you’re new to meditation or mindfulness, start with just a few minutes each day. Close your eyes, take a few deep breaths, and focus on the sensation of your breath entering and leaving your body. This simple act can help ground you, especially during moments when things feel overwhelming.
Likewise, consider adding some gentle physical activities to your day, such as stretching, yoga, or even a short walk outside. Movement not only boosts your mood but also releases tension stored in the body, helping to clear mental fog and reduce stress.
Nourish your mind, body, and spirit
Ultimately, the holidays are about more than just presents and decorations. They provide an opportunity to nurture your mind, body, and spirit. By taking a mindful approach to your holiday celebrations, you can cultivate a deeper sense of peace and joy—no matter what challenges arise.
Remember, the Christmas season is a time to pause, reflect, and celebrate all that you hold dear. It’s not about perfection, but about connection, love, and the moments that make life beautiful.
As we close out the year, I want to wish you a peaceful and joyous Christmas and a healthy, happy New Year. May you find calm amidst the bustle, embrace the moments that matter, and nourish yourself in body, mind, and spirit.
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Dr. Anna M L Smith, Holistic Mind-Body Doctor
Dr. Anna M L Smith is a UK-based doctor who offers a holistic approach to healthcare, which reflects her understanding of the mind-body connection and how lifestyle factors affect our mental and physical well-being.
She is the founder of Health and Wellness GP in Oxfordshire.
Her mission: To enable people to make small daily changes to benefit their mental and physical health.
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