Saskia Christian is well-known for Resilience and Trauma Healing. She is a Training Executive, Coach Consultant, E-Courses and "Mindset Mastery" Book Author, Co-Author of 4 compilations including Bestseller, Marquis Who's Who Empowerment & Top Engineer Honoree and Founder of BoostThru, a mental wellness and leadership development service.
Are you struggling to find the balance between your personal and professional life? Do you often find yourself overwhelmed and stretched thin? In this article, we will explore the importance of implementing effective strategies for building boundaries to enhance professional resilience and achieve peak performance. We will define the term "boundaries" and discuss the difference between hard and soft boundaries. Additionally, we will feature stories of two amazing professionals who were able to overcome their struggles by setting boundaries, prioritizing their overall well-being, and achieving top-performance leadership.
Defining boundaries
Boundaries refer to the limits and guidelines we set for ourselves in various aspects of our lives, including work, relationships, and personal time. They define what is acceptable and what is not, helping us maintain a healthy balance and protect our well-being.
Hard vs. soft boundaries
There are two types of boundaries: hard boundaries and soft boundaries. Hard boundaries are firm limits that we set which are non-negotiable. They are clear and explicit, and we do not compromise on them. Soft boundaries, on the other hand, are more flexible and can be adjusted based on the situation. They are guidelines rather than strict rules.
A transformative journey: A professional's story of setting boundaries
Let us introduce you to Sylvia, a high-achieving professional who struggled with setting boundaries. Despite her dedication and willingness to go above and beyond for her team, Sylvia found it difficult to say no, even when it compromised her well-being and family commitments. However, a personal family emergency forced her to prioritize her own needs. By communicating openly with her boss and setting a hard boundary, Sylvia not only preserved her well-being but also earned respect and appreciation from her boss.
BoostThru™ founder Saskia's journey: Overcoming people-pleasing and embracing boundaries
Let us introduce you to Saskia, the Founder of BoostThru, who once struggled with being a people pleaser. Saskia's desire to please others often led her to compromise her own well-being and neglect her core values. However, she embarked on a transformative journey to reclaim her strength and confidence.
Saskia realized that setting boundaries was not about being threatened by losing relationships or promotion opportunities. It was about staying true to herself and prioritizing her own needs. By remembering her core values and finding the courage to say no, Saskia gained the strength to protect her well-being, create a healthy work-life balance and achieve peak work performance.
Her journey was not without challenges, but Saskia's commitment to her self-worth and resilience paid off. As she set clear boundaries and communicated her needs openly, she discovered a newfound respect and appreciation from her colleagues and superiors. Not only did she regain control of her life, but she also inspired others to do the same.
Saskia's story serves as a reminder that setting boundaries is not a sign of weakness, but a testament to your self-worth and commitment to your well-being. By implementing the effective strategies mentioned in this article and leveraging the boundaries assessment tool, you can follow in Saskia's footsteps and achieve peak performance.
Top effective strategies for building boundaries
1. Define your core values: Reflect on your core values and what truly matters to you. This clarity will serve as your guiding compass when setting boundaries.
2. Learn to say no: Saying no is a sign of strength and self-awareness. Practice politely declining tasks or commitments that do not align with your priorities.
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3. Communicate openly: Be transparent with your colleagues and superiors about your needs and limitations. Effective communication fosters understanding and respect, leading to mutually beneficial solutions.
4. Prioritize self-care: Make self-care a non-negotiable part of your routine. Set aside time for activities that recharge and rejuvenate you for sustaining top performance.
5. Delegate and collaborate: Do not hesitate to delegate tasks or seek support from your team. Collaboration lightens your workload and promotes a culture of shared responsibility and trust.
Workplace boundaries assessment questionnaire
To help you navigate the art of saying no gracefully and confidently, we have prepared a workplace boundaries assessment questionnaire. Here are some questions to ask yourself in evaluating your current boundaries and identifying areas for improvement.
Can you clearly communicate expectations and boundaries to colleagues and superiors?
Can you prioritize and protect personal time outside of work?
Are you comfortable saying "no" when unable to take on additional tasks or responsibilities?
Do you maintain a healthy work-life balance and avoid excessive overtime?
Can you delegate tasks effectively and trust colleagues to handle them?
Can you set realistic goals and deadlines to manage your workload?
Are you mindful of colleagues' boundaries and respect their personal space and time?
Do you actively seek feedback and communicate openly with team members?
Can you disconnect from work and recharge during vacation or time off?
Are you aware of signs of burnout and take proactive steps to prevent it?
What positive outcomes have come from setting boundaries?
What negative outcomes have occurred from setting boundaries?
What changes or adjustments are needed to address the negative outcomes?
Which boundaries do you want to strictly adhere to (hard boundaries) and which ones are more aspirational (soft boundaries)?
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Master your workplace boundaries for professional growth and peak performance
Setting boundaries is not a sign of weakness; it is a testament to your self-worth and commitment to your well-being. By implementing the strategies mentioned in this article and leveraging the boundaries assessment tool, you can enhance your professional resilience, prioritize your well-being, and ultimately achieve peak performance. Remember, by setting clear boundaries, you create a professional environment that aligns with your values and enables you to reach your full potential.
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Saskia Christian, Training Executive & Coaching Consultant
Saskia Christian is a Training Executive, Trauma Healing and Resilient Leadership Coaching Consultant, Speaker and Founder of BoostThru, a life transformation coaching service helping professionals with mental wellness and leadership development strategies. She comes with a 17 plus years corporate engineering visionary leadership. She is the Author of the book " Mindset Mastery" and two (2) e-courses on Seasonal Journeying of Resilience and Co-Author of 4 anthologies including one International Bestseller in the Library of Congress. She is passionate about helping underestimated, overlooked, misunderstood business professionals and executive leaders maximize their influence and take their power back for authentic and triumphant living.
