Written by: Dotrell McNeal, Executive Contributor
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In life's journey, we often undergo transformative experiences that mold us into versions of ourselves we might not recognize at first. Change is inevitable, and with it comes the opportunity to reintroduce ourselves to the stranger within our new self. This process is not just about understanding the changes but embracing them with confidence, positivity, and assurance in the person we are becoming.
The person who you want to become is a stranger to you. We all have a stranger inside of us that we haven’t completely met just yet, and when we get outside of our comfort zones and try new things we are surprised at what we did or what we accomplished.
That’s that inner potential you didn't know existed, it was lying dormant. That's that stranger in you. Now that you know this stranger is there to help you understand and recognize who you are and what you can become and achieve, you begin to get more acquainted with that stranger and now you're trying more, doing more, and stepping out of those limiting beliefs shadows.
When we meet strangers what do we do? We introduce ourselves, right? So now that you've met the stranger in you, go reintroduce yourself to yourself, and then go out there and reintroduce yourself to others. So how does one begin to do this?
Reflection and acceptance: Before reintroducing ourselves to the world, it's crucial to reflect on the root work we've done to find out why we were in our own way, the changes you’ve experienced, and the tools that were used to help you. Whether it's personal growth, a career shift, or a change in perspective, acknowledging these transformations is the first step. Embrace the idea that change is a natural part of life, and it paves the way for a more evolved, resilient self.
Positive conversations with self: The conversations we have with ourselves shape our self-perception. Engage in positive conversations with yourself by acknowledging your strengths, achievements, and the courage it takes to evolve. Replace self-doubt with affirmations that reflect the new, empowered you. Create statements that reflect your strengths, capabilities, and the positive qualities you possess. Repeat these affirmations regularly to rewire your thought patterns. Celebrate your journey and the lessons learned along the way.
Set up the intentions: Setting intentions for the person you are becoming is a powerful practice. What qualities do you want to embody? What goals are you working towards? Setting positive intentions for the future helps guide your actions and decisions, aligning them with the person you aspire to be.
Step out of your comfort zone: Confidence is often built outside of our comfort zones. Challenge yourself to try new things, meet new people, and explore unfamiliar territories. Stepping into the unknown fosters adaptability and resilience, these are key components of a confident and assured self.
Celebrate progress, not perfection: Perfection is an unattainable standard, and striving for it can hinder confidence. Instead, celebrate the progress – both big and small. Recognize the growth you've experienced on your journey and the steps taken toward becoming your new self. Every journey is unique, and progress is a cause for celebration.
Surround yourself with supportive individuals, and express yourself authentically: Reintroducing yourself can be and is a vulnerable process, and having a support system in your corner is invaluable. Surround yourself with individuals who uplift, inspire, and encourage your growth. Share your journey with those who appreciate the authenticity of your evolving self. Authenticity is magnetic. Express your thoughts, feelings, and aspirations authentically. Let your voice be heard confidently, and don't be afraid to showcase the uniqueness of your evolving identity.
Reintroducing yourself to the stranger within is a beautiful process that’s ongoing. It's an acknowledgment of growth, resilience, and the continuous journey toward becoming the BEST version of yourself. With confidence, positivity, and assurance, step into the future as the empowered individual you are becoming. Embrace the stranger within, for they hold the keys to a brighter, and fulfilling tomorrow.
Dotrell McNeal, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Dotrell McNeal is a leader in all things self development . A certified life/success coach & mentor Dotrell created courses, eBooks, journals, private 1:1 coaching and mentorship. Dotrell is the founder and CEO of Your Confidence Matters which helps women and entrepreneurs unleash their inner potential while gaining Clarity ,Confidence and Courage. Dotrell is dedicated to helping others build up self-confidence and release limiting beliefs. Her mission: Your Confidence Matters and Insecure Must Go.
