Written by: Agapi Apostolopoulou, Executive Contributor
Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.
All relationships are formed by a container with specific characteristics that define the nature of the relationship. Some containers adhere to stereotypical societal expectations of how a relationship should be. For instance, being monogamous, living together, sharing common friends, and engaging with each other's families are common societal norms.
At the beginning of a relationship, many individuals compromise to meet the expectations of their partners, families, and society. However, some undergo a transformative experience where they realize they are not the person they truly want to be, and compromising is not beneficial for either them or their partner. This marks the moment when the partners no longer find satisfaction in the existing container, which is usually something that leads to a decision to break up.
My Beloved,
I've changed since we first crossed paths; I now speak a different "language." Meeting you exposed parts of me that needed healing, rooted in childhood scars and ancestral beliefs. I dove deep into my own darkness, faced my monsters, healed my wounds, and discovered hidden gifts.
Like a phoenix rising from transformative fires, I've become someone new. This person longs to connect with you in a fresh, loving space within our relationship. Are you open to meeting this changed me?
Different ways to navigate a conscious relationship
However, there are alternative ways to navigate a conscious relationship.
In a conscious relationship, when a container ceases to function because it no longer aligns with our evolving selves, there is an option to dissolve the container. This involves embarking on a deep transformative individual process, followed by the creation of a new container with characteristics that resonate more with our transformed selves.
Navigating a conscious relationship entails a continual process of healing and letting go of perceptions, beliefs, and traumas, progressing toward shedding old layers for profound transformation.
But what would be the prerequisites for the relationship healing to happen?
The prerequisites for this transformative process include both partners actively working on themselves, taking responsibility for their issues, having the courage to confront their shadows, and possessing the will to let go and move forward into unknown realities that cannot be controlled.
If you want to learn more and/or if you are interested in embarking on a transformative and healing journey in your relationship, you can contact me.
Agapi Apostolopoulou, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Agapi is a Self-development Teacher coming from the rich cultural tapestries of Greece and Ethiopia. She encompasses the roles of a Clairvoyant, Shaman, Tantric Teacher, and Medicine Woman. Her profound connection to the spiritual realm allows her to access the Akashic Records and channel information directly from the Spirit. She has a global presence and founded "Alithi Gi," an online school that provides a nurturing space for inner exploration and self-realization. Whether through individual sessions or experiential workshops, Agapi shares her wisdom and gifts in various corners of the world, creating a harmonious fusion of Knowledge and Experience.
