Written by: Tracey A. Chapman, Executive Contributor
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Life is full of twists and turns, and we can find many bumps and potholes on the road that we travel called life.
Have you found yourself hitting a pothole in life where you have felt that you cannot climb out and no matter how hard you try you just keep slipping right back in?
I am Tracey Chapman, a warrior who has traversed the challenging path of life. On this journey, I encountered a major obstacle – the devastating loss of my youngest son to suicide. Amid sorrow and despair, I found myself surrounded by darkness, feeling like I was drowning. But remember, even in our darkest moments, there is always a glimmer of light that can guide us towards healing and hope.
In the years after my son's passing, I discovered a transformative path to healing. It has allowed me to navigate the journey of grief with resilience, strength, and purpose. Now, I coach executive men and women to ‘Thrive After Grief’, igniting a new passion within them. Through this coaching, they can develop a deeper connection on a soul level and truly flourish.
Life is a journey filled with ups and downs, twists, and turns. Sometimes, it can feel like we've hit a pothole that we just can't seem to escape. It's during these moments that we may find ourselves questioning our abilities and feeling stuck in a never-ending cycle of setbacks.
But take heart, for even in the darkest of times, there is always a glimmer of hope. You have the strength within you to overcome any obstacle that comes your way. Remember, it's not about the number of times you fall, but rather how many times you get back up.
Every setback is an opportunity for growth and learning. Embrace those potholes as steppingstones towards your ultimate success. Believe in yourself and your capabilities, for they are far greater than you can imagine.
It may be tempting to dwell on the past or let negativity consume you, but instead choose to focus on what lies ahead. Dust yourself off and keep moving forward with unwavering determination. No matter how difficult it may seem at times.
So, when life throws potholes in your path, remember that they are merely temporary challenges meant to test your resilience. Rise above them with grace and perseverance, knowing that within you lies the power to conquer any obstacle.
Keep pushing forward, knowing that every setback is simply an opportunity for a comeback. Embrace those potholes as stepping stones on your journey towards finding your true power.
You can achieve incredible things if only you believe in yourself and never give up. Keep striving for success and remember even when faced with seemingly insurmountable obstacles, the only way out is through.
3 Key steps to ‘thrive after grief’
My coaching focuses on helping executives find new life after experiencing loss. Here are three tips that helped me discover new passion, purpose, and meaning, leading to a new life on the other side of my own loss.
1. Acceptance
Discover the power of accepting your pain! Embrace it wholeheartedly, for it is an integral part of your path towards healing. It is through acceptance that the transformative process of true healing can truly commence. Embrace vulnerability by expressing your emotions honestly; it's through acceptance that true growth can occur.
2. Self-love
Give yourself grace! Each of our paths to healing will be different. There is no direct pathway forward. Love yourself and find comfort on your journey for it is with self-love that we can truly embrace the healing process. Remember, healing is not a destination, but a beautiful journey of self-discovery and growth. Be patient with yourself as you navigate through ups and downs, for it is through these experiences that we find strength and resilience. Trust in your own unique path, for it is leading you towards the light within. Embrace each step with love and compassion, knowing that you are worthy of healing and happiness.
3. Well-being
By prioritizing your well-being, you'll experience a remarkable transformation in your focus, energy, and productivity. Start by nurturing your body. Remember, a healthy body is the foundation of a strong and resilient mind. Next, take charge of your mental well-being. Practice mindfulness techniques such as meditation or journaling to calm the chaos within. Cultivating a positive mindset will allow you to approach challenges with clarity and determination. Don't neglect the importance of nurturing emotional resilience too. Celebrate every small victory along the way as each step forward brings you closer to unlocking an abundance of focus, energy, and productivity.
Remember: You have unlimited potential within you waiting to be unleashed! Harness your physical strength, nourish your mind with positivity, and nurture emotional resilience – together they will ignite a fire within that propels you towards success like never before.
You may ask, how is it possible to ‘thrive after grief’?
Grief is not an easy road to travel; I can attest to that. The healing all starts within.
It's about looking deep within us and asking the hard questions. Do we want to remain stuck in this great big pothole, surrounded by darkness? Or do we want to climb out, explore what lies ahead, and embark on a new road? The choice is ours to make.
When we chose to walk the new road, we find a new appreciation for life. A new appreciation and a deeper understanding of what life truly means. It is a life that is not to be taken for granted.
It is in the depths of our souls that we discover the courage to confront our fears and face the hard questions. Through introspection, we find the strength to break free from the confines of our comfort zones.
Remaining stuck in a great big pothole, surrounded by darkness, may seem safe and familiar, but it stifles our growth and limits our potential. It is when we choose to climb out and explore what lies ahead that we open ourselves up to new possibilities, experiences, and opportunities.
Embarking on a new road requires determination, resilience, and a willingness to embrace change. It may not always be easy, but it is through these challenges that we learn valuable lessons about ourselves and the world around us.
As we walk this new road with an open heart and mind, we begin to see life in a different light. We appreciate each moment as a gift and cherish the beauty that surrounds us. Our perspectives shift, allowing us to find joy in even the simplest of things.
So let us not shy away from asking those hard questions or fear venturing into uncharted territory. Let us choose growth over stagnation, exploration over complacency. The choice is ours to make - will we remain confined within our grief, or will we embrace this journey of self-discovery?
The road ahead may be uncertain, but with every step forward, we unlock endless possibilities for personal transformation and fulfillment. Trust in yourself and have faith in your ability to navigate through any challenges that come your way.
Embrace the unknown with an open mind and a courageous spirit. Choose today to climb out of that pothole of darkness into a world filled with endless potential. The path awaits you – it's time for you to embark on your own unique journey towards self-discovery and fulfillment!
Pain is not a place to live; lighting our soul up and living is!
Transformation is crucial when we embark on the journey to overcome our adversities and rebuild our lives. It's important to remember that information alone is not enough to bring about transformation. That's why my "Thrive After Grief" coaching program is designed to empower you. In just a matter of weeks, rather than years, you will discover new passion, purpose, and meaning in your life.
Remember, as a high performer who has navigated the journey of grief and emerged stronger, I possess a unique combination of experience and credentials that can truly make a lasting impact on your life.
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Tracey A. Chapman, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Tracey Chapman is one of the few Resilience and Certified High-Performance coaches who has walked the painful grief journey and now specialises in helping executive men and women find new passion, purpose, and meaning and rebuild their lives after a devastating loss.
With her extensive knowledge and experience in High-Performance and Resilience Coaching, Tracey has designed a remarkable "Rebuild Your Power" coaching program. This program is for executives who are going through a complicated grieving process. By participating in this program, executives gain the tools and support they need to get things done and rebuild their confidence, motivation, and inspiration. Which ultimately empowers them to move forward faster and achieve their goals with renewed strength and determination without the fear of forgetting the one they love.
