Gem Dentith is a Personal Transformation Consultant and the founder of Gem Dentith Global, a personal, professional, and spiritual development company. Creator of the Aligned Success Method™, Gem helps high achievers strip past conditioning and align with their true purpose for authentic, lasting success.
Manifestation has become a buzzword in personal growth circles, promising the ability to turn dreams into reality by focusing on your desires. Yet, many people are frustrated when their manifestations don’t materialise. You’ve written your intentions, created vision boards, and meditated on your goals—so why aren’t they showing up?
The truth is that manifestation is as much about energy and alignment as it is about setting intentions. If you feel like your manifestations aren’t working, one (or more) of these five factors could be the culprit.
1. You’re trying to control the outcome and timing
One of the most common reasons manifestations fail is the tendency to micromanage the universe. You set a goal and immediately try to dictate how and when it should arrive. This need for control often stems from fear—a fear that if you don’t intervene, it won’t happen at all. However, this fear-based approach blocks the flow of abundance and keeps your desires at bay.
The universe operates on its own timeline, one that often works in ways we cannot foresee. Trying to control every detail of how your manifestation unfolds can limit the infinite possibilities available to you.
The fix: Let go and trust
Manifestation requires surrender. Trust that the universe will deliver your desires in the perfect way and at the perfect time. Instead of obsessing over the details, focus on the feeling of already having what you want. Let go of the “how” and embrace the flow. This doesn’t mean being passive—it means being open to unexpected opportunities and detours that could lead to something even better than what you envisioned.
2. Your energy is out of alignment
Manifestation works best when you’re in a state of high vibration—joy, gratitude, love, and trust. But if you’re operating from negative emotions like fear, doubt, or frustration, you’re unintentionally creating resistance. It’s like trying to tune into a radio station while your dial is slightly off. No matter how clear your intention is, if your energy is misaligned, your manifestation will struggle to reach you.
The fix: Raise your vibration
Cultivating a high-vibe state requires intentional practices. Start with gratitude journaling, where you list things you’re thankful for each day. Movement, like yoga or dancing, can also help you shift your energy. Surround yourself with uplifting people and environments that inspire positivity. Visualization combined with music that uplifts you emotionally can amplify your vibrational state. When your energy aligns with the frequency of your desires, you naturally attract them into your life.
3. You’re feeling the lack of what you want
When you focus on not having something, you unintentionally amplify the energy of lack. The universe doesn’t respond to your words; it responds to your emotional and energetic state. If you’re constantly thinking, “Why hasn’t it happened yet?” or feeling desperate, you’re reinforcing the absence of what you desire.
It’s natural to feel frustration when something you want deeply hasn’t arrived. However, dwelling on what’s missing keeps you stuck in the vibration of scarcity, which is the opposite of the abundance you seek.
The fix: Embody abundance now
Shift your focus to abundance by acting as though your manifestation has already come true. For example, if you’re manifesting a financial breakthrough, start practising gratitude for your existing resources, no matter how small. Celebrate even the smallest wins and adopt the mindset of someone who feels abundant. Visualize your desires as if they’re already yours and notice how this shift in perspective begins to open doors.
4. You’re not operating as your highest self
Your highest self is the version of you that already has what you desire. It’s the person who embodies the energy, mindset, and habits of someone living the life you envision. If you’re stuck in old patterns or holding onto limiting beliefs, you’ll struggle to align with this version of yourself.
For example, if you’re manifesting a thriving career but continue to procrastinate, avoid risks, or doubt your abilities, you’re not operating as the person who thrives in that role. Manifestation requires you to step into the identity of your highest self now before the external reality catches up.
The fix: Step into your power
Begin by asking yourself: What would my highest self do in this moment? Would they take a leap of faith, prioritize self-care, or confidently approach challenges? Start embodying these traits today, even in small ways. For instance, if your highest self is financially abundant, practice managing your resources responsibly and generously. The universe mirrors who you are, not just what you want, so becoming your highest self is key.
5. You’re only using your mind
Manifestation isn’t just a mental exercise. While setting clear intentions and visualizing your desires are important, your emotions play an equally crucial role. Think of your mind as the electric current sending your desire out into the universe and your emotions as the magnetic field pulling it back toward you. If you’re only focusing on your thoughts without feeling the joy, excitement, or gratitude of having what you desire, you’re missing half the equation.
The fix: Add feeling to your manifestation practice
Engage all your senses in your manifestation practice. For example, if you’re visualizing your dream home, imagine how it feels to walk through the front door, the scent of fresh flowers in the kitchen, or the warmth of sunlight streaming through the windows. The more vividly you feel these emotions, the more magnetic your energy becomes.
Bonus tip: Align your actions with your desires
Manifestation isn’t just about what you think and feel—it’s also about what you do. If you’re trying to manifest a new job, for example, but you’re not actively networking, updating your resume, or seeking opportunities, you’re not aligning your actions with your intentions. The universe responds to movement. When you take inspired action, you show that you’re serious about your goals, and you create pathways for your desires to flow into your life.
The key
Action rooted in alignment. This means taking steps that feel good, purposeful, and connected to your highest self. Inspired action isn’t about hustle; it’s about moving with intention and trust.
Align, feel, and trust
Manifestation isn’t just about wishful thinking, even if you have the best of intentions—it’s also about energy, alignment, and embodiment. Your thoughts act as the electrical signal sending out to the universe what you desire, and your energy acts as the magnet drawing that thing towards you. If your manifestations aren’t working, it’s an invitation to check in with your energy, mindset, and connection to your highest self. Trust the process, release control, and align yourself with the abundance you seek.
The universe is always working behind the scenes to bring you what you desire—or something even better. When you let go, raise your vibration, and step into your authentic power, you’ll find that manifestation becomes less about effort and more about flow. The question isn’t if your dreams will come true—it’s when. Are you ready to align and receive?
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Gem Dentith, Personal Transformation Consultant & Coach
Gem Dentith is an entrepreneur, speaker, coach, and founder of Gem Dentith Global, dedicated to helping individuals achieve radical self-alignment and authentic success. Drawing on her journey from healthcare to strategic business leadership and personal transformation, Gem developed the Aligned Success Method™, a framework empowering high achievers to lead lives of purpose and resilience. Her forthcoming book, Undressed, offers tools for moving beyond external validation to live with true alignment. Gem’s work inspires leaders, entrepreneurs, and seekers to redefine success and embrace their fullest potential.
