Emily Evans Russell is a single mom, multi 6-figure business owner, and a Master Mindset & Life Coach. Emily empowers women during life’s pivots so that when big changes occur (relationship, job, finances), they can easily move forward with clarity, ease, and fulfillment.
Facing a major life crossroads, whether it’s a divorce, career shift, or starting fresh, can feel like standing on the edge of a daunting cliff. You might leap and discover you’re soaring, confident, and unbothered. But the fear of making the wrong choice and sinking can be paralyzing, leaving you stuck, second-guessing every move, and wondering if it’s safer to just stay put. What most people don’t realize is that they already have an essential decision-making tool in their arsenal, and they’ve just forgotten how to use it! This tool is intuition. It helps you make decisions that align with your true self, free from self-doubt and the judgments of others.
Here’s how to navigate a crossroads and make decisions with clarity and calm:
1. Let your intuition be your guide
Think of your intuition as your inner GPS, gently nudging you in the direction that feels right. It’s that gut feeling or little whisper that knows what’s best for you, even when things feel confusing. Trusting it might not come naturally if you’ve been taught to always rely on logic or outside opinions. But by starting with small, everyday choices, like picking what to eat or how to spend your free time, you’ll build trust in that inner voice. Soon, it’ll be your go-to guide for those bigger life decisions, too.
2. Release self-doubt and outside opinions
It’s easy to get caught up in what others think or to doubt your own inner compass. You might find yourself making decisions out of fear or simply to meet someone else’s expectations. But what if you focused on what you want instead? Shifting your mindset from “What should I do?” to “What feels right for me?” can be a game-changer. Remember, no one else has walked in your shoes or knows your heart like you do. Give yourself permission to choose what feels true to you.
3. Calm your nervous system to find clarity
When your nervous system is stressed out or in flight or flight, you can’t process information with clarity. That’s why calming your nervous system is so important, and it brings you back to a place of peace where clear, aligned decisions can be made. Simple things like taking deep breaths, going for a walk, or spending a few quiet moments each day can work wonders. It’s not about getting rid of all your stress but about creating little pockets of calm that help you connect with your true self.
4. Take baby steps with aligned action
Once you’re tuned in to your intuition and feeling calmer, it’s time to take action that aligns with your heart. You don’t have to make huge leaps or overhaul your life overnight. Start with small, intentional steps that feel good and true to you. These little actions will build momentum, helping you move towards a life that lights you up. Trust that every step counts, even if the progress feels slow at first.
5. Embrace the journey of trusting yourself
Navigating these crossroads isn’t about making perfect decisions; it’s about learning to trust yourself along the way. There will be bumps and moments of doubt, and that’s completely normal. The key is to keep checking in with your intuition, even when the path ahead feels uncertain. Remember, the goal isn’t to get everything right; it’s to make choices that are right for you. When you do that, you’re not just picking a path; you’re choosing to honor yourself. And that’s the most powerful choice of all.
If you’re feeling stuck at a crossroads, take a deep breath and turn inward. Tune out the noise, listen to your intuition, and trust that it’s guiding you towards what’s best for you. By making decisions from a place of calm and clarity, you’ll not only find your way but create a life that truly feels like yours.
Emily Evans Russell, Master Mindset & Energy Coach, MAT
Emily Evans Russell is a single mom, multi 6-figure business owner, and a Master Mindset & Life Coach. Emily empowers women during life’s pivots so that when big changes occur (relationship, job, finances), they can easily move forward with clarity, ease, and fulfillment. She holds her master's degree in teaching and has trained in Rapid Resolution Therapy, Yoga, and has been a facilitator of seminars in consciousness, energy and mindset for 10 years. The tools and perspectives Emily shares in her community are anything but traditional, yet they are wildly effective. Her target: to teach others how to uniquely design their lives using a mix of subconscious mind hacks, perspective shifts and simple energetic upgrades.
