Written by: Rita Roushdy, Executive Contributor
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Let me tell you a story about a past client, Sarah...
Sarah had big dreams and even bigger money goals.
She desired unlimited financial and time freedom. So she began by creating a vision of how she wanted to manifest them into her reality, starting with a big-money goal.
She felt that her vision was on its way to becoming a reality and was far too excited to receive it.
By doing that, she put her big-money goal on a pedestal and created resistance to the goal.
That resistance becomes a block to the opportunities for money to come into your life. Because it limits how you're open to receiving.
As a result, she was at the mercy of that external victory, giving her power away to that outside force. And deep down interlinking the achievement of her goal to her self-worth and self-belief.
And before long, she would start her day being very aware that it hasn't yet manifested into her reality. Which placed her in a lack of vibration and initiated her scarcity mindset.
Sound familiar?
The goal is to create the sensation that you're good either way because you're not attached to the outcome.
The power of letting go of the outcome lies in the following 3 worst-kept secrets.
1. Be The Master Of Your Current Reality
The most powerful secret to detaching from the outcome is to be fully present in the moment.
Master your current reality by being fully conscious and aware of the present moment. Have the awareness that your wins do not dictate how worthy or abundant you are.
Marinate in the perception and feeling that you are already abundant. This is potent when it comes to manifesting financial abundance!
The vision for your future is a preview of what you're working towards. They're a mirror to what you need to work on in the present. The person who sets the goal is not the person who achieves it, meaning that you must grow as you achieve each goal.
So, focus on being present in the moment and connecting to yourself and the people around you instead of thinking about what the current opportunity could mean for your end goal. Being present includes being grateful for what you have in your life now. This allows you to feel the blessings of the money you're currently attracting into your life. Grounding in the emotions of gratitude.
2. Heal the need to control
Attachment to outcome is 'control' in disguise, which comes from unhealed trauma.
Note:
We've all got unhealed trauma, during which we've created certain beliefs and perceptions. Living rent-free in your mind and body and can be manifest in the form of autopilot behavior.
So, when Sarah was feeling the need to control every situation, it was due to traumatic memory. And based on her perception of what had happened, she created the belief that.
"I need to control everything, otherwise it won't be perfect, and it will fall apart" Which became: "I need to control everything to succeed."
This attracted more situations into her life to prove her belief to be true and depleted her energy.
And the more controlling she did, the more she felt the need to control, All the while blocking the money that's trying to flow to her.
Once she released the limiting belief, she made space for her new and empowering belief to take its place:
"I believe and allow money to flow into my life with ease. I hold my vision lightly."
And once you believe that your abundance is yours regardless. You’ll find that things happen so much more naturally and with so much more ease.
3. Use Emotional Freedom Technique To Release The Energy
I've prepared an additional training video on this subject with a free EFT section.
This will help you release the energetic charge you've created around this big money goal.
Click here to access the video. And make sure you comment or DM me to let me know what emotion came up for you when you first started to do the exercise.
With every secret shared in this article, you hold the power to uncover more of your truest and most abundant self.
This is your reminder that you can be clear about what you want AND release attachment to how and when it happens.
You are a powerful creator, and I invite you to use this piece to empower you to release the attachment to your goals.
If you need more clarity on why you're not manifesting money with ease, you can book in for a free clarity call here.
P.S. I only open these slots a couple of times a month. They're on a first-come, first-served basis, so I highly recommend that you apply sooner than later to avoid disappointment.
Rita Roushdy, Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine
Rita Roushdy is an expert in the money mindset, uncovering subconscious limiting beliefs and supporting high-level women in becoming a powerful magnet for money.
After a decade of hustling hard but hardly being paid, leaving her depleted and wounded, Rita was on a mission to heal her relationship with money, knowing that it will be a lifelong journey beginning by healing herself first.
Rita’s purpose quickly became to share this secret with other women who desire to level up their businesses and finances into new heights of limitless abundance that spill into all areas of their lives.
Transforming society’s relationship with money, one woman at a time, Rita strives to uncover and release old limiting money paradigms that we’ve been programmed with.
Using an abundance of healing tools and techniques, she guides her clients, releasing anything that no longer serves them by healing old money wounds and deep-rooted beliefs, making space for what they truly desire to have more of in their lives, activating and allowing them to become magnetic to their dream clients.
She has supported her worldwide clients, reaching consistent £10K and £20K per month income goals and hitting their first £100K in business in less than 2 months of working together.
She’s been invited to share her expertise on money mindset and became a keynote speaker, all within the first year of entering the coaching space.
