Written by: Maria R. Malec, Executive Contributor
Executive Contributors at Brainz Magazine are handpicked and invited to contribute because of their knowledge and valuable insight within their area of expertise.
Mental strength is your mind’s ability to keep working towards your goals regardless of the obstacles
that stand in your way. Mental strength is also a set of skills that you can develop with practice. With
each constructive decision you make, managing your feelings and thoughts becomes more automatic.
Cultivate habits that bring you greater success and peace of mind. Try these suggestions for
harnessing your strengths.
Gaining Wisdom
Follow your curiosity. Explore your interests. Approach each day with a sense of adventure and welcome new experiences.
Continue learning. Commit yourself to lifelong learning. Sign up for adult education courses at a local university or study a foreign language online. Read a different book each week and attend lectures at nearby museums.
Indulge your creativity. Take up a hobby. Decorate cakes or knit a sweater. Spend time making crafts with your children.
Develop mindfulness. Use prayer and meditation to deepen your mindfulness. Concentrate on one activity at a time. Live in the present moment.
Interacting with others
Cultivate gratitude. List the blessings in your life and recognize how much you depend on others. Think about the services you receive from those around you like the teachers who taught you how to read and the farmers who grow your food.
Show respect. It’s easier to honour the value of each life when you appreciate how closely we are connected. Let your speech and actions express your esteem.
Be kind. However strong we are, mishaps still occur. Be gentle with yourself and others during difficult times. They’ll be more likely to return the favour.
Give generously. Share your time, talents, and wealth with others. You’ll feel richer and experience more joy and satisfaction. Surprise your family and friends with random gifts. Volunteer in your community and support worthy causes.
Practice forgiveness. Letting go of resentments frees up your energy. Pardon others when they offend you. Show the same compassion for yourself when you slip up.
Other Mental Habits
Muster up your courage. Growing stronger requires taking risks. Give yourself credit for taking the plunge even if your first effort winds up being just a trial run. Keep your sights on what you have to gain when you push yourself to speak in public or try a new sport.
Focus on integrity. Align your actions with your values. Think through the long-term consequences of your decisions. Are you allocating your time in a way that serves your purpose in life?
Tolerate discomfort. Uncertainty and setbacks are a part of life, especially when you tackle challenges head-on. Enduring a temporary rough patch can be the first step toward a brighter future.
Delay gratification. Impulse control is one of the most important skills associated with happiness and high achievement. The secret is to distract yourself from temptations so you can put them in perspective.
Hope for the future. Whether you feel strong or weak today, better things may be in store for tomorrow. You’ll be better prepared to handle any circumstances when you reinforce your inner strengths.
Accomplish more with less effort. Building up your mental strength puts you on the path toward
enhancing your relationships and finding greater fulfilment. You’ll have the inner resources to strive
for what you want.
Want to learn more from Maria? Visit her website.
Executive Contributor Brainz Magazine & 2021 CREA Award Winner
As a Human Experience Coach, Maria reminds folks that living is an art. Using various tools found in nature, she creates experiential retreats that ignite one's inner healer. She brings people to the awareness that their level of wellness is directly related to their peace of mind. Through heart/brain coherence, it is her mission to inspire others to paint a beautiful living by daring to declare their innermost desires, bringing peace to chaotic hearts, and helping them to restore themselves to their original blueprint of design. Her methods teach others how to find their flow and live fully with all their senses.
In addition to coaching and speaking, Maria published her first book in 2020 titled, Dare to Declare, Greeting the Day With Intention. You can get it here: https://amzn.to/3BXAvGQ
